Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:This thread is obnoxious. [/quote]
I agree and have been baffled by all the "HYP" "HYPSM" "Stanford EA vs Yale EA" "Columbia double legacy" "Is Cornell an ivy?" posts in the last month. Do the posting parents have any understanding of how difficult it is today to get into these schools? It's not a popular phrase, but it is a lottery. Your chances are miniscule even with perfect scores and legacy parents. Why bother with all this posting. Parents who are just entering this application season are far better off going to collegeconfidential. At least there they will get a better sense of how challenging it is to get into some of these schools and how they have to keep telling their DCs that it is like going to Vegas - don't get your hopes up.
I agree +1000. I just had 2 kids go thru the process. But every time we say it is a lottery, some parent will chime up - 'oh,no, my DC had good grades and nothing else and got in to HYPS'. So until these people go through the process themselves, they won't believe those who had just gone through the process.
Anonymous wrote:This thread is obnoxious. [/quote]
I agree and have been baffled by all the "HYP" "HYPSM" "Stanford EA vs Yale EA" "Columbia double legacy" "Is Cornell an ivy?" posts in the last month. Do the posting parents have any understanding of how difficult it is today to get into these schools? It's not a popular phrase, but it is a lottery. Your chances are miniscule even with perfect scores and legacy parents. Why bother with all this posting. Parents who are just entering this application season are far better off going to collegeconfidential. At least there they will get a better sense of how challenging it is to get into some of these schools and how they have to keep telling their DCs that it is like going to Vegas - don't get your hopes up.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:This thread is obnoxious.
I disagree. People tend to paint top schools with one broad brush. There are some big differences in how schools use their endowments to enrich the student experience. Some schools use it to have the best food options or build incredible living spaces. Others use it to fully fund internships and provide critical support to help students succeed. And others use it to make sure the student body is economically diverse. IMO it's important to understand these differences and how it impacts the overall student experience. Where this money goes = what the college actually values and I personally want to know that before shipping my kid off.
Anonymous wrote:This thread is obnoxious.
Anonymous wrote:I can speak for HYP vs another Ivy (children at both).
The child at the non-HYP Ivy is happier and more satisfied overall with the sense of community, undergrad focus, and quality of education. The child at HYP is pretty content as well, but there is a noticeable difference in funding and opportunities. For instance, child at non-HYP had to apply for competitive internship funding up to $4000, and while they got it, a number of friends didn't. Child at HYP got multiple summer experiences funded alongside international conferences during the school year (publicized by the school for all interested students), over $10000 to start a new organization, and a lot more. Key influential speakers visit the child at HYP a lot more to the point there's a joke about missing all the influential connections for a low-key party with food. The graduate facilities are distinguished and have a lot of connection to the undergrads at HYP, making it easy for a student to work at law, medicine, etc. if they desire. Many Nobel laureate faculty members who take undergrads within their wings. On campus recruiting is a major difference too- while non HYP child probably has little worry about getting a lucrative job in the long term, a lot more recruiting happens at HYP.
All that said, we don't feel like there's a massive difference. HYP win by the sheer number of opportunities, sure, but at both HYP and non-HYP there are far too many opportunities to take advantage of than anyone could. Given the more positive experiences of our non-HYP child, we believe that our money is more worth it there. You can't go wrong with either group.