Anonymous
09/25/2017 16:18
Subject: All single women should have to read DCUM for a month before marrying
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I don't know. I'm single and I feel weird and conflicted sometimes reading this board. On the one hand, it makes me wonder how many of the seemingly good marriages I know are actually not that great underneath. That makes me feel a bit better about being perpetually single, that I'm not the only one not in an ideal situation. It can feel a little lonely sometimes, wondering why you're solo in a world filled with couples.
On the other hand, it makes me even more annoyed when I get the "smug married" attitude. Because then I think, "b*tch, you hate your husband, but you still act like you "won" something by being married."
A lot of people are just putting up with abject misery. Especially women, because there's such social pressure for women to be married
Yeah women put up with "abject misery" because their husbands make great money and provide well for their wives and kids. Such a noble sacrifice!
Anonymous
09/25/2017 15:48
Subject: All single women should have to read DCUM for a month before marrying
Anonymous wrote:I don't know. I'm single and I feel weird and conflicted sometimes reading this board. On the one hand, it makes me wonder how many of the seemingly good marriages I know are actually not that great underneath. That makes me feel a bit better about being perpetually single, that I'm not the only one not in an ideal situation. It can feel a little lonely sometimes, wondering why you're solo in a world filled with couples.
On the other hand, it makes me even more annoyed when I get the "smug married" attitude. Because then I think, "b*tch, you hate your husband, but you still act like you "won" something by being married."
+1
Anonymous
09/25/2017 15:26
Subject: All single women should have to read DCUM for a month before marrying
Anonymous wrote:I don't know. I'm single and I feel weird and conflicted sometimes reading this board. On the one hand, it makes me wonder how many of the seemingly good marriages I know are actually not that great underneath. That makes me feel a bit better about being perpetually single, that I'm not the only one not in an ideal situation. It can feel a little lonely sometimes, wondering why you're solo in a world filled with couples.
On the other hand, it makes me even more annoyed when I get the "smug married" attitude. Because then I think, "b*tch, you hate your husband, but you still act like you "won" something by being married."
A lot of people are just putting up with abject misery. Especially women, because there's such social pressure for women to be married
Anonymous
09/25/2017 15:09
Subject: All single women should have to read DCUM for a month before marrying
I don't know. I'm single and I feel weird and conflicted sometimes reading this board. On the one hand, it makes me wonder how many of the seemingly good marriages I know are actually not that great underneath. That makes me feel a bit better about being perpetually single, that I'm not the only one not in an ideal situation. It can feel a little lonely sometimes, wondering why you're solo in a world filled with couples.
On the other hand, it makes me even more annoyed when I get the "smug married" attitude. Because then I think, "b*tch, you hate your husband, but you still act like you "won" something by being married."
On the other hand, it makes me even more annoyed when I get the "smug married" attitude. Because then I think, "b*tch, you hate your husband, but you still act like you "won" something by being married."
Anonymous
09/25/2017 15:06
Subject: All single women should have to read DCUM for a month before marrying
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Nothing will turn you off faster than reading the male posters here. I think it attracts a special subset of douche
+1. The whininess and self-importance...
+2
Anonymous
09/25/2017 15:01
Subject: All single women should have to read DCUM for a month before marrying
Anonymous wrote:Bah, men should read it, too -- then they'd probably never get married.
This is so true. It should be compulsory for all men considering marriage.
Anonymous
09/25/2017 14:59
Subject: All single women should have to read DCUM for a month before marrying
Anonymous wrote:I love how if a post defends men, one will pop up almost immediately for women.
"Defends" men? Lol. You're delusional.
Anonymous
09/25/2017 14:24
Subject: All single women should have to read DCUM for a month before marrying
Bah, men should read it, too -- then they'd probably never get married.
Anonymous
09/25/2017 14:23
Subject: All single women should have to read DCUM for a month before marrying
Anonymous wrote:Nothing will turn you off faster than reading the male posters here. I think it attracts a special subset of douche
+1. The whininess and self-importance...
Anonymous
09/25/2017 14:11
Subject: All single women should have to read DCUM for a month before marrying
Nothing will turn you off faster than reading the male posters here. I think it attracts a special subset of douche
Anonymous
09/25/2017 14:11
Subject: All single women should have to read DCUM for a month before marrying
I love how if a post defends men, one will pop up almost immediately for women.
Anonymous
09/25/2017 14:06
Subject: All single women should have to read DCUM for a month before marrying
Anonymous wrote:You too can be the permanent caretaker for another adult, one who essentially expects you to be his mother, and do all the chores and household duties without helping at all! Come on down ladies, don't be shy...
That sounds like a personal problem. You're not too smart if you take what is on DCUM as the norm. People come here to complain, all of the successfully married people don't need to post...they're happy.
Anonymous
09/25/2017 14:04
Subject: All single women should have to read DCUM for a month before marrying
You too can be the permanent caretaker for another adult, one who essentially expects you to be his mother, and do all the chores and household duties without helping at all! Come on down ladies, don't be shy...
Anonymous
09/25/2017 14:02
Subject: All single women should have to read DCUM for a month before marrying
I would never have gotten married.
Anonymous
09/25/2017 14:00
Subject: All single women should have to read DCUM for a month before marrying
I wonder how many women would have made a different choice.