Anonymous
Post 09/25/2017 13:33     Subject: All single men shoudl have to read DCUM for a month before proposing
Anonymous wrote:You know, a good counselor goes over all these issues before marriage. We had 6 sessions and they were extremely beneficial.

I still wish DH was more involved with his parents, called them and spoke to them about plans. All of that has fallen to me and there's constant annoyance from my inlaws about this and they direct it at me. For instance, we're going on vacation this weekend with inlaws and DH hasn't yet figured out what day we're going, the address of the house rental or whether any reservations or plans have been made for the weekend. And I'm not about to add it to my mountain of to-do s.


And? If I want something done the way I want it I make the plans. Otherwise don't agree to go. Stop harping.
Anonymous
Post 09/25/2017 13:32     Subject: Re:All single men shoudl have to read DCUM for a month before proposing
OP, if you spend any time on this forum, there is a good chance that you will decide marriage is not for you. At the least you will have a very jaded view of marriage and the future.
Anonymous
Post 09/25/2017 13:32     Subject: All single men shoudl have to read DCUM for a month before proposing
Everyone should read DCUM, are you kidding me? Unhelpful husbands, cheaters, the misery of SAHM and the stress of WOHM. Every choice has consequences. Getting married seems to me to be a losing dead for BOTH parties.
Anonymous
Post 09/25/2017 13:28     Subject: All single men shoudl have to read DCUM for a month before proposing


Ha! All singles, you mean. Men as well as women.
Anonymous
Post 09/25/2017 13:22     Subject: All single men shoudl have to read DCUM for a month before proposing
Take your blankie and pacifier and take a nap, OP.
Anonymous
Post 09/25/2017 13:21     Subject: All single men shoudl have to read DCUM for a month before proposing
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Are you the same person who wrote the incoherent "I won't do any work and I'm angry my wife is upset about that" thread? You have the same 2nd grade level spelling


I guess you know you would not have been proposed to if your DH had followed the OP's advice.


No, but my husband would have probably gotten a good chuckle from all the male whiners on here. It's pretty amusing stuff.
Anonymous
Post 09/25/2017 13:18     Subject: Re:All single men shoudl have to read DCUM for a month before proposing
DCUM female posters are not representative of women at large. Also, it's a relationship "issue"' board and sane people with no issues don't write in to say how great their marriage is.

But yes, marriage is hard work at times, kids can stress a marriage and you won't be having as much sex as you did (or as you want) if you decide to get married and have kids.
Anonymous
Post 09/25/2017 13:16     Subject: All single men shoudl have to read DCUM for a month before proposing
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Most of the DCUM harpies are bitter dried up divorced women who can't find another man or overweight tumblrinas with cats as companions as they can't find a male to put up with their garbage. Oh, it's the guys fault he doesn't want to date their bitter angry asses...

I agree, it's incite into the most bitter and contemptuous group of woman in the area.

I think every single guy should read it and see if they notice similar traits in the women they're dating. If you see any similarities - run run run.

There are good women in the area. Plenty of them.


Oh cheeto fingers. I guess no one liked your post so you have to reply to yourself.

I wish we could take all your posts and make a list out of them to warn women who might be thinking about marriage. It would be helpful if you could register.


Clearly your DH is one lucky guy.


As is your (nonexistent) DW.
Anonymous
Post 09/25/2017 13:15     Subject: All single men shoudl have to read DCUM for a month before proposing
You know, a good counselor goes over all these issues before marriage. We had 6 sessions and they were extremely beneficial.

I still wish DH was more involved with his parents, called them and spoke to them about plans. All of that has fallen to me and there's constant annoyance from my inlaws about this and they direct it at me. For instance, we're going on vacation this weekend with inlaws and DH hasn't yet figured out what day we're going, the address of the house rental or whether any reservations or plans have been made for the weekend. And I'm not about to add it to my mountain of to-do s.
Anonymous
Post 09/25/2017 13:12     Subject: All single men shoudl have to read DCUM for a month before proposing
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Most of the DCUM harpies are bitter dried up divorced women who can't find another man or overweight tumblrinas with cats as companions as they can't find a male to put up with their garbage. Oh, it's the guys fault he doesn't want to date their bitter angry asses...

I agree, it's incite into the most bitter and contemptuous group of woman in the area.

I think every single guy should read it and see if they notice similar traits in the women they're dating. If you see any similarities - run run run.

There are good women in the area. Plenty of them.


Oh cheeto fingers. I guess no one liked your post so you have to reply to yourself.

I wish we could take all your posts and make a list out of them to warn women who might be thinking about marriage. It would be helpful if you could register.


Clearly your DH is one lucky guy.
Anonymous
Post 09/25/2017 13:10     Subject: All single men shoudl have to read DCUM for a month before proposing
Anonymous wrote:Are you the same person who wrote the incoherent "I won't do any work and I'm angry my wife is upset about that" thread? You have the same 2nd grade level spelling


I guess you know you would not have been proposed to if your DH had followed the OP's advice.
Anonymous
Post 09/25/2017 13:09     Subject: All single men shoudl have to read DCUM for a month before proposing
Anonymous wrote:Most of the DCUM harpies are bitter dried up divorced women who can't find another man or overweight tumblrinas with cats as companions as they can't find a male to put up with their garbage. Oh, it's the guys fault he doesn't want to date their bitter angry asses...

I agree, it's incite into the most bitter and contemptuous group of woman in the area.

I think every single guy should read it and see if they notice similar traits in the women they're dating. If you see any similarities - run run run.

There are good women in the area. Plenty of them.


Oh cheeto fingers. I guess no one liked your post so you have to reply to yourself.

I wish we could take all your posts and make a list out of them to warn women who might be thinking about marriage. It would be helpful if you could register.
Anonymous
Post 09/25/2017 13:07     Subject: All single men shoudl have to read DCUM for a month before proposing
Most of the DCUM harpies are bitter dried up divorced women who can't find another man or overweight tumblrinas with cats as companions as they can't find a male to put up with their garbage. Oh, it's the guys fault he doesn't want to date their bitter angry asses...

I agree, it's incite into the most bitter and contemptuous group of woman in the area.

I think every single guy should read it and see if they notice similar traits in the women they're dating. If you see any similarities - run run run.

There are good women in the area. Plenty of them.
Anonymous
Post 09/25/2017 13:01     Subject: All single men shoudl have to read DCUM for a month before proposing
Are you the same person who wrote the incoherent "I won't do any work and I'm angry my wife is upset about that" thread? You have the same 2nd grade level spelling
Anonymous
Post 09/25/2017 12:59     Subject: All single men shoudl have to read DCUM for a month before proposing
I think many men would take a more critical look at the woman they were planning to propose to if they read all of the hate filled posts by the women. I believe the old saying Men thing the woman won't change after the wedding day and Women are certain the men will. I would also encourage men to pay attention to how they are treated during the wedding planning, it is a good preview of married life.