He sounds controlling and manipulative. Get out.

how well does he f*ck you? I mean, what other reason could you possibly have for staying in this "relationship" that you find so awful?

Anonymous wrote:DTMFA.

+1

How could a person ever feel like they can just go take a shower in peace after that? He might be rummaging through all your belongings, trying to hack into your phone and computer.

Why the heck are you still in the relationship?

Is it ever okay for someone to read their SO's journal? I mean that is really f up. Pardon my french.

And you're still with him because . . . ?

Why are you still with him? The relationship obviously isn't working on multiple levels.

So when is the wedding?

Anonymous wrote:I am staying with him in another country right now where he lives... I feel so sad and miserable inside.

Uh...ever thought of leaving?

Anonymous wrote:So break up with him. You're miserable and he's a dick.

This. Life is too short. Youll be so much happier.

write this in your journal and leave it open

DTMFA.

So break up with him. You're miserable and he's a dick.

My boyfriend read my journal while I was in the shower the other night. He was standing there when I got out of the shower just staring at me all creepy. I told him he broke my trust. He said he didn't regret it. I feel hurt and enraged but I can't show it. I feel like I have to constantly watch my back with him.

I never feel happy when we go places. I am staying with him in another country right now where he lives. I have to rent a car if we go anywhere because he cannot drive. We are both adults. I feel drained being with him. I feel like I'm carrying around a 50 pound suitcase with me when he comes with me when I go somewhere in public. That is the best way I can describe the feeling. He mopes, is miserable the whole time, acts angry that we
are going anywhere, and would rather stay home on his computer all day. I feel so sad and miserable inside.