My wife and I go a few times a year. Most people would be very surprised that my extremely preppy, prim and proper, PTA president wife often suggests that we go.

Anonymous wrote:If it got my wife excited, I'd want to go with her. Otherwise, I wouldn't have any particular interest.

I'm the PP who accidentally ruined it for my DH. I didn't know how I'd feel about it, so I went in with an open mind. As it turns out, it didn't do anything for me, but I'm not sure I would've known that if I didn't go.

If it got my wife excited, I'd want to go with her. Otherwise, I wouldn't have any particular interest.

Anonymous wrote:I went with DH once when we were just dating in college.

I treated it more like anthropological research where we had drinks with a few of the strippers when they weren't dancing and talked about their lives and hopes and dreams, etc.

DH describes that as the night I ruined strip clubs for him.

He still goes to one for the occasional bachelor party, but just says, "when they dance, I keep thinking about them trying to do the best they can for their kids. It's a real buzz kill."

Ha! Same. It wasn't my DH but a guy I was dating. I went to the bathroom and came out with 2 girls who I chatted up in there. They sat down with us and we talked "girl stuff." Totally ruined his night.

Anonymous wrote:No. Marry women and sex are mutually exclusive.

The 1950s called. They'd like their sexual ignorance and misogyny back, thanks.

I went with DH once when we were just dating in college.

I treated it more like anthropological research where we had drinks with a few of the strippers when they weren't dancing and talked about their lives and hopes and dreams, etc.

DH describes that as the night I ruined strip clubs for him.

He still goes to one for the occasional bachelor party, but just says, "when they dance, I keep thinking about them trying to do the best they can for their kids. It's a real buzz kill."

I've done it a few times and we both had a LOT of fun. You see a lot more couples in strip clubs these days.

No. Marry women and sex are mutually exclusive.

Don't, just don't.

Pay a steep cover and nurse an overpriced beer so I can watch some skank gyrate? No thanks.

Sure, if I was married and she wanted to go.

Unless we have a few hours to kill in Las Vegas, I can't think why we would be going to a strip club.

First, I have no interest in going to a strip club. If I want to see a naked woman and "achieve a degree of sexual satisfaction" I can do that at home though not every night.
Second, if I suggested it to her she would look at me and ask "WTF? Am I not enough for you?"

No because she's bisexual and has warned me against placing her in such environments (also gay bars, etc.).

Why or why not? Would it be a turn on or just awkward?