Anonymous
08/28/2017 09:23
Subject: Where did you go to be with your affair partner?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Hotels, parks, car.
Yeah I can totally imagine a woman going for those latter two.
If the guy won't even pony up the dough for a hotel room, dump his sorry ass and get a higher quality AP.
DH and I have had sex in the car in a Dunkin Donuts parking lot. It was exciting.
Anonymous
08/28/2017 09:00
Subject: Where did you go to be with your affair partner?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Hotels, parks, car.
Yeah I can totally imagine a woman going for those latter two.
If the guy won't even pony up the dough for a hotel room, dump his sorry ass and get a higher quality AP.
This actually happens all the time. I walk in various parks on a daily basis and I often see couples parked next to each other in the corners of parking lots. When I first noticed this I didn't realize they were there to "hook up". Very common at lunch time and immediately after work.
Anonymous
08/28/2017 08:51
Subject: Re:Where did you go to be with your affair partner?
His place or a hotel.
Anonymous
08/28/2017 08:48
Subject: Where did you go to be with your affair partner?
Anonymous wrote:Hotels, parks, car.
Yeah I can totally imagine a woman going for those latter two.
If the guy won't even pony up the dough for a hotel room, dump his sorry ass and get a higher quality AP.
Anonymous
08/28/2017 07:59
Subject: Where did you go to be with your affair partner?
OP probably likes that his/her AP is a FWB and if s/he was single the AP would become a SO.
SOs are annoying.
SOs are annoying.
Anonymous
08/28/2017 07:58
Subject: Where did you go to be with your affair partner?
Anonymous wrote:There are a few rooming houses on Rhode Island Ave. NE in DC that rent rooms for short durations. (Like $25 for 4 hours.)
There's one at South Dakota and Rhode Island that looks awful
Anonymous
08/28/2017 07:51
Subject: Where did you go to be with your affair partner?
Hotels, parks, car.
Anonymous
08/28/2017 07:50
Subject: Where did you go to be with your affair partner?
There are a few rooming houses on Rhode Island Ave. NE in DC that rent rooms for short durations. (Like $25 for 4 hours.)
Anonymous
08/28/2017 07:25
Subject: Where did you go to be with your affair partner?
One of our offices, supply closets, stairwells, one of our cars, hotels, my place, his place.
Anonymous
08/28/2017 06:58
Subject: Where did you go to be with your affair partner?
My car
His place
My place
His place
My place
Anonymous
08/28/2017 06:48
Subject: Where did you go to be with your affair partner?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:How does being the breadwinner preclude you from getting a divorce? Just get one and move on. Grow up.
+1
If you're possibly "staying for the kids' sake" because your spouse doesn't earn, get a grip. Be honest with yourself, your spouse and (eventually) your kids, rather than maintaining an affair they'll find out about eventually anyway.
You can divorce and give your ex what a court orders and even more, if you want to. But claiming you can't divorce because you're the breadwinner is just finding an excuse to stay in an affair rather than being up front and leaving your marriage. You sound as if you're enjoying the drama of being in an affair (and getting an anonymous thrill out of telling a bunch of strangers on the internet that you're out there, so happy with AP, so good at keeping your secret, and just hoping for some titillating ideas on where to hide out).
DING! DING! DING!
This.
Anonymous
08/28/2017 06:28
Subject: Where did you go to be with your affair partner?
Anonymous wrote:How does being the breadwinner preclude you from getting a divorce? Just get one and move on. Grow up.
+1
If you're possibly "staying for the kids' sake" because your spouse doesn't earn, get a grip. Be honest with yourself, your spouse and (eventually) your kids, rather than maintaining an affair they'll find out about eventually anyway.
You can divorce and give your ex what a court orders and even more, if you want to. But claiming you can't divorce because you're the breadwinner is just finding an excuse to stay in an affair rather than being up front and leaving your marriage. You sound as if you're enjoying the drama of being in an affair (and getting an anonymous thrill out of telling a bunch of strangers on the internet that you're out there, so happy with AP, so good at keeping your secret, and just hoping for some titillating ideas on where to hide out).
Anonymous
08/28/2017 05:48
Subject: Where did you go to be with your affair partner?
My mom would go to cheap motels. That is how I caught her, by seeing her car parked out front. Our relationship has never recovered.
Anonymous
08/28/2017 05:38
Subject: Where did you go to be with your affair partner?
How does being the breadwinner preclude you from getting a divorce? Just get one and move on. Grow up.
Anonymous
08/28/2017 00:10
Subject: Where did you go to be with your affair partner?
Hotels? Air B and B?
Very happy with AP. Both of us are in sexless marriages we can't leave right now (both breadwinners).
Problem is finding private places to be together.
Not interested in your judgment. Until you've been denied sex for years while doing 90% of household tasks and being primary earner, you've no idea.
Very happy with AP. Both of us are in sexless marriages we can't leave right now (both breadwinners).
Problem is finding private places to be together.
Not interested in your judgment. Until you've been denied sex for years while doing 90% of household tasks and being primary earner, you've no idea.