Been there. My first wife cheated on me.

How did you find out?

No, she doesn't.

Does she have any idea that you know?

yeah she works.

You will survive this. I promise. Read every page of chump lady.com It will save your life.

I know how horrible you feel right now. But your life will move forward and you will be happy. Breathe. Talk to someone you can trust. Get that paternity test NOW. Call a lawyer today.

Good luck.

Does it even matter how long it was going on? I mean I just can't see a marriage coming back from something like this, at least for me. I don't even think I can look her in the eyes I am so disgusted.

Ugh, that really sucks, OP. I'm glad you found out sooner rather than later. Get your ducks in a row. Does she work?

Anonymous wrote:Yeah I have written proof.

not a lawyer but i think you need more than that, right?

Definitely be 100% sure and try to find out how long it's been going on. That is awful, I am sorry!

Yeah I have written proof.

No other kids. This is the first. Yeah I guess I should get on hiring a lawyer. This F*cking sucks.

Anonymous wrote:Just found out my wife was/is having an affair, and we have a kid on the way due in a couple months. Not sure what I am supposed to do at this point? confront her? Never dealt with anything like this before. Just feeling really crappy.

Are you 100% sure?


Start documenting everything.

Sh*t that sucks man. You will have to find out if baby's yours for sure. Collect evidence and find yourself a lawyer.

Do you have any other kids? Demand a paternity test.

Just found out my wife was/is having an affair, and we have a kid on the way due in a couple months. Not sure what I am supposed to do at this point? confront her? Never dealt with anything like this before. Just feeling really crappy.