You people never heard of shower sex ? It's hard to believe you aren't alone for 5 minutes.

I have a husband that's over sexed. I do not do the deed with people in my house. I tell him to use the cherry blossom body wash and handle his business.

Bathroom early morning when peopel are asleep, or late night when everyone is in bed. No one's going to barge in then. Heck, take a shower together.

Your H sounds like a child.

-A 35 year old man

Tell the kids you are going on a day trip and get a room if your H is going to torture you with emotional abuse and give him some sympathy sex... sound fun. NOT.

No I would not do it in the house with a bunch of people. You are empty nesters, this is literally never an issue any more except maybe 2-4 times a year.

You H is an a$$hat.

Question OP - is the bed on a carpeted floor? Beach houses often have wooden floors which can create a lot of noise. My DH's parents had a beach house and we slept in a bedroom, right above the master, which had twin beds and a wooden floor. We actually conceived two of our children in that situation. Silent but fruitful. We still joke about it but our kids were shocked when they got old enough to figure it out.

Anonymous wrote:A house full of people is a libido killer imo. I wouldn't worry about it too much either way.

Woman here and I agree. I have a very regular and active sex life otherwise. But our vacation every year is with anywhere from 4-8 other people and always pretty tight space. This year our room didn't even have an actual door. So I'd survive if I had to live two weeks without sex, it's not like we go that long any other time. He's being a baby if you guys otherwise have no issues.

Anonymous wrote:A house full of people is a libido killer imo. I wouldn't worry about it too much either way.

Is it? I personally find it kind of exciting, to be honest. I would be mortified if they heard me, but trying to keep it quiet would be a turn on for sure.

Anonymous wrote:A house full of people is a libido killer imo. I wouldn't worry about it too much either way.

Not trying to pock on you PP, but as a general point, what number is that one the list of <BS> reasons women have not to have sex?

A house full of people is a libido killer imo. I wouldn't worry about it too much either way.

Anonymous wrote:If its a big house I don't see what the issue is, sex doesn't have to be loud. I mean, don't you have sex in your house when your children are sleeping?

We are empty nesters so we don't worry about noise but I get your point.

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Anonymous wrote:I'd have sex and try to muffle my noise or I'd find a quiet, private place outside the house after everyone went to sleep. For instance, were I at a lake, I might go for a midnight swim.

OP here - when we were dating and visiting his parents home I do remember going out onto the back lawn! I wish this house had a big back yard!

Honestly that sounds more risky than doing it quietly in your room...but more exciting lol.

Anonymous wrote:I'd have sex and try to muffle my noise or I'd find a quiet, private place outside the house after everyone went to sleep. For instance, were I at a lake, I might go for a midnight swim.

OP here - when we were dating and visiting his parents home I do remember going out onto the back lawn! I wish this house had a big back yard!

If its a big house I don't see what the issue is, sex doesn't have to be loud. I mean, don't you have sex in your house when your children are sleeping?

I'd have sex and try to muffle my noise or I'd find a quiet, private place outside the house after everyone went to sleep. For instance, were I at a lake, I might go for a midnight swim.

My DH and I are on vacation with our children, their spouses and little grandchildren, all in one big house. My DH and I still have a very active sex life for 'oldies' 1-2x per week. We've been here four nights and last night my DH was definitely showing interest but I was not enthusiastic given the full house. He said he was darn sure our kids knew that we still had sex and that the GC's were so young that we weren't going to harm their psyches. He didn't convince me. When we leave Saturday I'm heading away for a week to visit my mother and my DH said 'do you really want to go over two weeks without sex'? I don't want to go for the full two weeks but right now I'm feeling more like a grandmother than a wife. What would you do?