Yea, he's in amazing shape. He's not the hottest guy (pretty average) but his body (and brain) definitely compensate.

Yes. He's 40 and very fit. 6-pack, great shoulders, muscular legs. When we met, he was overweight. We got healthy together. He works out 3-4x/week, mainly because he wants to be healthy enough to run around with our 3 kids.

I won't say him becoming athletic made me more attracted to him but it didn't hurt.

Would you be more attracted to him if he were?