Anonymous
Post 08/10/2017 10:16     Subject: Re:where do all the financially insecure, unmotivated guys hang out?
I have friends married to some of them. They actually make good fathers and take care of the home. They are all VERY intelligent but are misanthropes. They cook well too but generally let themselves go.
Anonymous
Post 08/10/2017 10:13     Subject: where do all the financially insecure, unmotivated guys hang out?
The house I just moved out of.
Anonymous
Post 08/10/2017 10:09     Subject: where do all the financially insecure, unmotivated guys hang out?
Anonymous wrote:In garages playing bass in their band that is totally going to be discovered next week, and that's why it's not worth putting effort into the day job.

- BTDT


Like this guy? Because I would love to meet an unmarried version of him:
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=FmWp-rI6vSw
Anonymous
Post 08/10/2017 09:07     Subject: where do all the financially insecure, unmotivated guys hang out?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Bars. Not the nice ones. Or each other's couches. Or on porn sites.


Smart, motivated, successful men also watch porn, all men do. Except your DH, of course, he is the exception.


Porn sites not so much. I end up buying the DVD or blueray..... got to support the artists in their work right
Anonymous
Post 08/10/2017 08:08     Subject: where do all the financially insecure, unmotivated guys hang out?
In garages playing bass in their band that is totally going to be discovered next week, and that's why it's not worth putting effort into the day job.

- BTDT
Anonymous
Post 08/10/2017 05:53     Subject: where do all the financially insecure, unmotivated guys hang out?
Baltimore circuit court! Tons of them there as witnesses, defendants, you name it!

(signed, a juror just finished with a trial and disgusted by everything about Baltimore City at the moment. Would move if it wouldn't triple my mortgage.)
Anonymous
Post 08/10/2017 05:50     Subject: where do all the financially insecure, unmotivated guys hang out?
Anonymous wrote:Bars. Not the nice ones. Or each other's couches. Or on porn sites.


Smart, motivated, successful men also watch porn, all men do. Except your DH, of course, he is the exception.
Anonymous
Post 08/10/2017 00:26     Subject: where do all the financially insecure, unmotivated guys hang out?
Williamsburg, Brooklyn. Some guys from there come from wealthy families and have trust funds, though.
Anonymous
Post 08/09/2017 23:59     Subject: where do all the financially insecure, unmotivated guys hang out?
Anonymous wrote:Bars. Not the nice ones. Or each other's couches. Or on porn sites.


This is what I was going to say.
Anonymous
Post 08/09/2017 23:58     Subject: where do all the financially insecure, unmotivated guys hang out?
Bars. Not the nice ones. Or each other's couches. Or on porn sites.
Anonymous
Post 08/09/2017 23:55     Subject: where do all the financially insecure, unmotivated guys hang out?
The beach (California), the mountains (Colorado), and Burning Man. I'm serious.
Anonymous
Post 08/09/2017 23:37     Subject: where do all the financially insecure, unmotivated guys hang out?
Anonymous wrote:I am asking for a friend. She is ivy educated and does not want to compete with her man. She wants a sahd who likes video games and drinking beer with his friends in the basement. Her only requirement is that he is smart and hot. She doesn't want stupid kids.


I'm smart and hot but I don't play video games and I don't drink much beer these days.

She snagged me when we were seniors in college.
Anonymous
Post 08/09/2017 23:25     Subject: where do all the financially insecure, unmotivated guys hang out?
Anonymous wrote:I am asking for a friend. She is ivy educated and does not want to compete with her man. She wants a sahd who likes video games and drinking beer with his friends in the basement. Her only requirement is that he is smart and hot. She doesn't want stupid kids.


OMG, I didn't know I'd achieved someone else's dream.

He ghosted though. He wanted video games and drinking beers with his friends on the beach instead of in the basement, and without the parenting duties.

Those guys all hang out in Pacific Beach, CA.
Anonymous
Post 08/09/2017 23:21     Subject: where do all the financially insecure, unmotivated guys hang out?
DCUM
Anonymous
Post 08/09/2017 22:33     Subject: where do all the financially insecure, unmotivated guys hang out?
I am asking for a friend. She is ivy educated and does not want to compete with her man. She wants a sahd who likes video games and drinking beer with his friends in the basement. Her only requirement is that he is smart and hot. She doesn't want stupid kids.