Anonymous wrote:I'm trying online dating and had a first date last night. The conversation was great, we spent four hours in a snug small plates place with no lulls and lots of laughs coupled with openness on all topics. He has everything I'm looking for but I didn't really feel any sexual desire of any sort. I did in the week or so of messages before we met. I couldn't imagine sleeping with him but for no obvious reasons.
Does this mean move on or try another date? He's very interested and wanted to schedule a second date when we said goodbye. I'm new to dating in general so I'm not sure what to expect or how to gauge this. Anyone have any similar experiences to share?
Do this guy a favor and tell him how you feel so he can find someone who actually finds him sexually attractive.
Once again: Men find reasons to have sex with women while women actively find reasons to not have sex with men.