Anonymous
Post 08/06/2017 13:46     Subject: married professor dating a graduate student
OP knows nothing. Has no evidence, and is just annoyed that his advisor won't meet with him.

My advisor was completely asexual and still didn't give me the time of day.

Focus on your work, junior.
Anonymous
Post 08/06/2017 13:45     Subject: married professor dating a graduate student
Do you KNOW they're sleeping together, or are you just making assumptions? If you know it as fact, submit a complaint through whatever administrative mechanism your institution has in place.
Anonymous
Post 08/06/2017 13:41     Subject: Re:married professor dating a graduate student
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:They're both legal adults - why do you care.


Potential favoritism?


Did you miss the part where op wrote that he's MARRIED.
Anonymous
Post 08/06/2017 13:38     Subject: married professor dating a graduate student
LOL spending hours in a professor's office = really shitty "date" you should feel sorry for her
Anonymous
Post 08/06/2017 13:38     Subject: Re:married professor dating a graduate student
Anonymous wrote:Is she attractive? Are you jealous of this alleged interaction?


No. I am male. He doesn't have time for his other students. It has nothing to do with jealously.
Anonymous
Post 08/06/2017 13:37     Subject: Re:married professor dating a graduate student
Dress slutter - always worked for me when I went into the office of my adviser. Now I have a great job thanks to his connections.
Anonymous
Post 08/06/2017 13:31     Subject: Re:married professor dating a graduate student
Anonymous wrote:They're both legal adults - why do you care.


Potential favoritism?
Anonymous
Post 08/06/2017 13:31     Subject: Re:married professor dating a graduate student
Is she attractive? Are you jealous of this alleged interaction?
Anonymous
Post 08/06/2017 13:30     Subject: Re:married professor dating a graduate student
They're both legal adults - why do you care.
Anonymous
Post 08/06/2017 13:30     Subject: married professor dating a graduate student
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Should I submit an anonymous complaint? Why else would my Ph.D. adviser be having closed door meetings for hours on end? He never closes the door when we meet. The student has even finished his qualifying exams so I know they aren't working on research. The fact that he's married really pisses me off too.


I meant to write she hasn't NOT finished her qualifying exams.


Huh?
Anonymous
Post 08/06/2017 13:29     Subject: married professor dating a graduate student
This is not your business and you don't even know what's going on. Why do you care?
Anonymous
Post 08/06/2017 13:28     Subject: Re:married professor dating a graduate student
You dummy, if it's your advisor, the person signing off on your dissertation, the person writing job recommendations and contacting hiring committees for you, STFU.
Anonymous
Post 08/06/2017 13:26     Subject: married professor dating a graduate student
You have no evidence besides a closed door?

Relax and focus on your work, doctor wannabe.
Anonymous
Post 08/06/2017 13:20     Subject: married professor dating a graduate student
Anonymous wrote:Should I submit an anonymous complaint? Why else would my Ph.D. adviser be having closed door meetings for hours on end? He never closes the door when we meet. The student has even finished his qualifying exams so I know they aren't working on research. The fact that he's married really pisses me off too.


I meant to write she hasn't NOT finished her qualifying exams.
Anonymous
Post 08/06/2017 13:19     Subject: married professor dating a graduate student
Should I submit an anonymous complaint? Why else would my Ph.D. adviser be having closed door meetings for hours on end? He never closes the door when we meet. The student has even finished his qualifying exams so I know they aren't working on research. The fact that he's married really pisses me off too.