I like books for this kind of thing. You'd pick different ones for the infants than the 8 YO, obviously, but they're easy to pack, unlikely to be damaged, and if you pick less obvious ones (no Goodnight Moon!), you're not likely to repeat ones in their collection. If you do, books are easy to pass along and donate, so the receiving parents don't feel like they have to keep this thing they don't like to keep me happy.