Anonymous wrote:I was overweight for a long time. My husband kid of was as well but lost a lot very quickly. He looks good. It took me longer but I lost a tong of weight, started working out a lot and have really embraced eating and being healthy. For the first time in my life, I am getting a lot of attention from other men. It's nice, I like the feeling and I feel sexy now. My husband is definitely more attracted to me and is constantly initiating sex. Issue is I turn him down a lot, because I'm not attracted to him anymore. He was ok when I was overweight but not fawning over me like now. I appreciate his desire, but I kind of want to play the field now I have all this attention. I never really had it before and I want the experience
It happens. I was overweight for a long time and dated someone during that time. When I lost weight, I was more able and willing to admit that I was with him because he was someone to be with who liked me. Once I had lost weight and got more interest from other men, I didn't feel so stuck with him anymore and yes, I moved on. Difference of course is I was not married to him.