Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Two. But they both had family elsewhere and it was a sahm and an attorney so they went to a lower col so they could make it work for their 3 children on one salary and not insane hours. The other set were teachers and family up north with an extra house they could live in rent free. Most of my other friends are from here and have family ties for at least one spouse and have usually one fed in the couple at a pretty high level.
Our family friend was also a fed which may explain why she had to wait 4 long years for a transfer.
With all of the money she wasted on the rent she could have paid for both of her children's college educations.
Anonymous wrote:None. The other option is go back to their home state and make $40k a year lol. Not many people choosing that option.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Two. But they both had family elsewhere and it was a sahm and an attorney so they went to a lower col so they could make it work for their 3 children on one salary and not insane hours. The other set were teachers and family up north with an extra house they could live in rent free. Most of my other friends are from here and have family ties for at least one spouse and have usually one fed in the couple at a pretty high level.
Our family friend was also a fed which may explain why she had to wait 4 long years for a transfer.
With all of the money she wasted on the rent she could have paid for both of her children's college educations.
Anonymous wrote:None. The other option is go back to their home state and make $40k a year lol. Not many people choosing that option.
Anonymous wrote:This area has the most ideal col to salary ratio. Only foolish people leave because of col.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:N one. Instead, we're all living in condos, smaller houses, budgeting. The amenities are just too good here. Some talk about leaving though, but no one has.
This is overwhelmingly the case for us. There's some moving around within DC and the surrounding area looking for a fix, but only two friends moved away. Both are cautionary tales. Friend #1 moved to a lower cost Midwestern City and found that you have to pay for culture. No free world class museums and zoos. They can't afford the memberships so their kids are bored when it's too cold to be outside. Lots of tv. Friend #2 bought a huge house in the burbs of a mid-size mid-Southern city. There is no diversity. Few folks who aren't white, Protestant, and straight. Even the few Jewish people and POC all have the same bland culture as everyone else. It's very isolating.
Anonymous wrote:Two. But they both had family elsewhere and it was a sahm and an attorney so they went to a lower col so they could make it work for their 3 children on one salary and not insane hours. The other set were teachers and family up north with an extra house they could live in rent free. Most of my other friends are from here and have family ties for at least one spouse and have usually one fed in the couple at a pretty high level.
Anonymous wrote:N one. Instead, we're all living in condos, smaller houses, budgeting. The amenities are just too good here. Some talk about leaving though, but no one has.