I used Maureen Danker back in 2009. She is great. Very level headed and kept me in check when I was off the wall with my situation (cheating spouse). She was efficient and knows how the system works. She really was about getting me the best outcome and making sure my kids had stability.
Any good lawyer knows how their county's family court works. There are not a lot of family judges so a good lawyer will not want their names tarnished because it will make it harder to win against certain judges. Maureen is highly respected. Lawyers will do a consultation so you can see if their style matches yours. Good luck and go into your consultation prepared (know your finances, expenses, potential new living situations, what you'll fight tooth and nail for and what is negotiable).
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