Anonymous
Post 07/06/2017 04:35     Subject: Fling with Ex

Your current partner knows you already been naked with that person and is fine with that knowledge. So, doing it again isn't really a big deal.
Anonymous
Post 07/06/2017 02:43     Subject: Fling with Ex

Free refills.
Anonymous
Post 07/06/2017 01:36     Subject: Fling with Ex

Not cheating. Not worse. Ignore anyone who says otherwise.
Anonymous
Post 07/06/2017 00:41     Subject: Fling with Ex

If said person is in an exclusive relationship with another person then yes it is cheating.
It's the actual act...Not the person involved in the act.
Anonymous
Post 07/06/2017 00:38     Subject: Fling with Ex

If I had sex with my ex the wife would be pissed but would not feel threatened. If with a stranger or acquaintance she would be pissed and threatened.
Anonymous
Post 07/05/2017 23:07     Subject: Fling with Ex

Yes, it is cheating.
Of course it is different than with a stranger, because to cheat with an ex there are already feelings there.
Anonymous
Post 07/05/2017 22:39     Subject: Fling with Ex

Anonymous wrote:If I have an agreement to be sexually monogamous with my partner, then any sexual contact with someone other than my partner is cheating.

What kind of loophole are you trying to create?


Exactly!
Anonymous
Post 07/05/2017 22:38     Subject: Fling with Ex

If I have an agreement to be sexually monogamous with my partner, then any sexual contact with someone other than my partner is cheating.

What kind of loophole are you trying to create?
Anonymous
Post 07/05/2017 22:23     Subject: Fling with Ex

If I was going to give one my hall pass would not extend to an ex.
Anonymous
Post 07/05/2017 22:20     Subject: Fling with Ex

It's different from sex with a stranger. It's way more serious because of accessibility and history. If kids are involved it's pretty heavy for them. If either person is in a new relationship, it's definitely cheating, unless there's some kind of hall pass or understanding.
Anonymous
Post 07/05/2017 22:19     Subject: Fling with Ex

It's absolutely cheating in my book and probably the worst kind of cheating.
Anonymous
Post 07/05/2017 22:18     Subject: Re:Fling with Ex

It is different, it’s worse.
Anonymous
Post 07/05/2017 22:17     Subject: Fling with Ex

I think it's worse for the person being cheated on. I'd definitely break up with someone for a fling with an ex. Less sure if I'd do it for a true one night stand. Ymmv.
Anonymous
Post 07/05/2017 21:53     Subject: Re:Fling with Ex

It's definitely cheating when in a relationship
Anonymous
Post 07/05/2017 21:48     Subject: Fling with Ex

Agree or disagree -- or qualify: Settle my friend's and my debate:
Sex with an ex isn't cheating per se, or is somehow different than with a relative stranger/new acquaintance.