Anonymous wrote:is your main concern at this point social or academics? if social, go with the smallest school possible. if academics, go with a bigger school and with more resources
As another parent of an autistic child, I disagree with this. A small school is not necessarily better socially because it can be harder for someone to find a compatible friend; in a small school, it can be easier for everyone except your kid to be friends with each other.
Academically, I haven't seen much of a difference between small and large school; what matters is whether the teachers have experience with the kinds of academic problems that your child has.