How can you be amicable, if not close friends?

Did you mean amicable BUT not close friends?

Anonymous wrote:Your kids will end up hating you because dh will tell them someday. Work with your DH. This guy might be attractive, but believe me he has his faults.

Yep, I did. Wife cheated, when kids asked why I told them. When they were younger I didn't say much but that their mom liked someone better than me. When they got older I told them. No point in hiding it, it's the truth. Don't do stuff if you're not prepared for the consequences and the the truth.

Anonymous wrote:Tell your DH you're starting to fantasize about guys you see in the street because he no longer wants sex. Ask him to find a solution with you. It's understandable that you're going through this.

If this post had genders reversed you'd be having a sh*tfit calling the man horrible names.

Anonymous wrote:OP, look at the bright side. Your kids are already friends with their future step-siblings.

Very good point. OP, you are not doing it for yourself. You are doing it for them. It's a sacrifice you need to make...

Anonymous wrote:OP, look at the bright side. Your kids are already friends with their future step-siblings.

Hahaha! He wouldn't marry her. A married woman cheating on her husband equals LOSER. A piece of ass only.

OP, look at the bright side. Your kids are already friends with their future step-siblings.

Think of him covered with herpes sores!

But, honestly, hurting your kids and your "great husband" should be enough to stop you.

Anonymous wrote:Your kids will end up hating you because dh will tell them someday. Work with your DH. This guy might be attractive, but believe me he has his faults.

this. It will ruin your world, not worth it for some (maybe) good sex.

he could be your soulmate.

go have him and enjoy yourself.

Do you know the circumstances on why he is a single dad? Widow? Babydaddy? If divorced remember someone made the choice to be done with him while they had a child and you don't know what that reason might be. What do you do if he was an abuser and was kicking his wife's butt? You could be next....take that along with all the other issues and decide if you really want to do this

Your kids will end up hating you because dh will tell them someday. Work with your DH. This guy might be attractive, but believe me he has his faults.

Tell your DH you're starting to fantasize about guys you see in the street because he no longer wants sex. Ask him to find a solution with you. It's understandable that you're going through this.

However many years you've been with your DH, at that point sex would be just as boring with this guy and you'd have the added headache of divorce and all that crap. He's just not boring YET.

Unless you want to wreck your life. You're married. If you're flirting he will probably see you as a cheap woman. And if he does something with you he'll only be using you. Start thinking clearly.

Stop it altogether. Nip it now.

There's a single dad at school and I can't stop thinking about him. Our kids are friends, we see each other at parties and pick up/drop off. My DH and he are amicable, if not close friends. . I have found myself very attracted to him and can't stop thinking about starting something with him. I know it would devastate my husband, who is a good guy and a great dad. It would also blow up my whole circle of friends. Husband and I just don't seem to have a very exciting sex life these days (I've tried but he's not interested lately). I really am in the mood for some down and dirty. I WAH and so does the single dad... and i can't stop thinking. Have been getting relief by putting on lingerie in the middle of the day and taking things into my own hands, but it isn't helping.

So glad summer is coming and I won't see him as much. I feel so much sexual tension between us... dropped off something his kid forgot at his house last night and it was all I could do not to go for it in the driveway. I know this is wrong.

Remind me of all the downsides. I need a reality check.