Anonymous
Post 06/06/2017 15:29     Subject: How to find out if someone is really divorced ?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Divorce records are available online


Not in all states.


Goes by counties. Yes sometimes you have to go there and pay a fee.
Anonymous
Post 06/06/2017 15:08     Subject: How to find out if someone is really divorced ?
Anonymous wrote:Call his ex.


As a man, this would be a huge red flag for me. And if I find out you did this, I would dump you in a second. There are better ways.

The correct answer is to go to his place. After two months, it would be a huge red flag for you if he doesn't let you.

A sketchier possibility is to call him a couple times very late at night and ask him to come over. Or ask him to go on a weekend trip. Essentially, things that would be difficult to hide from a spouse if done often enough. If he keeps saying no to these requests, it may be a red flag. But he may also think you are crazy and or that you don't trust him or both, and he would be right. And that'd be a shame for you if he is actually divorced and a good guy.

If he uses social media, see if his profile looks real (meaning it has friends, and not just a shell account).
Anonymous
Post 06/06/2017 14:38     Subject: How to find out if someone is really divorced ?
LOVE that maryland site. Just checked out my own name. Heeheeee!
Anonymous
Post 06/06/2017 12:55     Subject: How to find out if someone is really divorced ?
Anonymous wrote:Divorce records are available online


Not in all states.
Anonymous
Post 06/06/2017 12:54     Subject: How to find out if someone is really divorced ?
Divorce records are available online
Anonymous
Post 06/06/2017 09:49     Subject: Re:How to find out if someone is really divorced ?
Is your new friend his ex? If he's living alone why do you doubt him and believe your new friend?
Anonymous
Post 06/06/2017 07:57     Subject: Re:How to find out if someone is really divorced ?
I googled "search California divorce records" and found this site:

http://publicrecords.onlinesearches.com/California-Divorce-Records.htm
Anonymous
Post 06/06/2017 07:52     Subject: How to find out if someone is really divorced ?
Op. I've been to his place, he's living by himself and there's no indication there's someone else living with him.

We're in California, sorry I should have mentioned that before.
Anonymous
Post 06/06/2017 07:44     Subject: How to find out if someone is really divorced ?
Say you want to see his place. His reaction will give you all the info you need! Seems like you've been dating long enough that it's nkt a crazy request.

Signed,
Someone Who's Been Here
Anonymous
Post 06/06/2017 07:33     Subject: Re:How to find out if someone is really divorced ?
You should be checking out guys after the 1st coffee date. Dating 101
Anonymous
Post 06/06/2017 06:23     Subject: Re:How to find out if someone is really divorced ?
If you're in Maryland it's all online http://casesearch.courts.state.md.us/casesearch/
Anonymous
Post 06/06/2017 06:22     Subject: How to find out if someone is really divorced ?
Anonymous wrote:Been dating this man for a couple of months. He says he is divorced but a new friend of mine talked to me about him and said he was married.
I was very puzzled. I don't think he's a liar but is there a way to find out online maybe ? Like on a website ?
Thanks!


A website? Like the courts? That website?
Anonymous
Post 06/06/2017 06:20     Subject: How to find out if someone is really divorced ?
Call his ex.
Anonymous
Post 06/06/2017 06:07     Subject: Re:How to find out if someone is really divorced ?
Have you been to his house?
Anonymous
Post 06/06/2017 04:25     Subject: How to find out if someone is really divorced ?
Been dating this man for a couple of months. He says he is divorced but a new friend of mine talked to me about him and said he was married.
I was very puzzled. I don't think he's a liar but is there a way to find out online maybe ? Like on a website ?
Thanks!