Anonymous wrote:You lost me at "girl." Are you a grown man interested in girls?

I don't understand this hang up some people have about the use of the word girl (or boy). After all, adults introduce their SO's while dating as their girlfriend or boyfriend.

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You lost me at "girl." Are you a grown man interested in girls?

I think no, because it doesn't sound like you really like her in a way that means you want to date her.

It's great you think she's nice, and has a nice family and your family likes her and her family likes you, but at the end of the day it's you that's got to be in a relationship with her.

Yes we are broken up and my parents said I should go out with her after they found out we broke up. We've gotten along really well and they like her a lot so they just think it would be good for me. It could turn into a friend I hangout with nothing more which is fine. I don't think it's a bad idea but but I just want to know from other people best sides my guy friends. I do see the point with her being friends with my parents and going wrong which I wouldn't want to happen and yes I can do that first. I think that's a great idea instead of jumping in head first. Thank you!!

I won't be listening to them haha

Hard to say. If things went wrong with someone so close to your family, that could be awkward for years to come. Can you get to know her better as a friend first and see if a spark is really there? Sometimes there's value in being with someone very different from us, with completely different life experiences, who can expand our horizons.

don't listen to and advice you get from the hens on this site... especially the ones that complain about the use of the word "girls."

Would you be breaking up with your GF even if this new girl didn't exist?

If so, yes pursue her.

If not, no don't.

Anonymous wrote:Should I see her after breaking up with gf? Would I be moving to fast? She is like me in a lot of ways and is already friends with my parents. That's a good sign right? I've met her and she's extremely nice and seems very family oriented which I love. Shes hung out with my parents and loves them. My mom and her get alone very well and my dad thinks she's someone I should pursue. My dad talks to her and her family at least twice a week. Her family loves me and they all think I'm someone she should see. What do you think?

OP,

How old are you? Are you dating girls? If you are an adult you should be dating women. If DCUM told you not to see this woman would you listen and say ok? Please ask this question again because you are not making much sense. Sorry!

Should I see her after breaking up with gf? Would I be moving to fast? She is like me in a lot of ways and is already friends with my parents. That's a good sign right? I've met her and she's extremely nice and seems very family oriented which I love. Shes hung out with my parents and loves them. My mom and her get alone very well and my dad thinks she's someone I should pursue. My dad talks to her and her family at least twice a week. Her family loves me and they all think I'm someone she should see. What do you think?