Anonymous wrote:It's not because the man cheated on his wife once that he'll do it again. Maybe he wasn't happy in his mariage and fell in love with that new woman. Things happen. It doesn't make the man a bad person.

OP here. This is how one of my coworkers was trying to justify her affair with a married man who's not her husband.

This makes no sense. Troll? Or true among some cultures/SES?

OP, you need better friends. I've never met a single person who bragged about this.

That's not to say I've never met anyone who's cheated or left their spouse - it's just that in my social circle this would be very much looked down upon. I imagine people with this type of history would only share it with their closest friends.

It's not because the man cheated on his wife once that he'll do it again. Maybe he wasn't happy in his mariage and fell in love with that new woman. Things happen. It doesn't make the man a bad person.

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Anonymous wrote:Never heard of this. Maybe I give off just enough of a judgy bitch face that they keep that little factoid to themselves around me.

+1 I've never heard of this either. But 1 - I also give off a judgy bitch face and 2 - I don't have friends who would do something like that so...

I do have my sister sneaking into married men. She did it twice in the same work environment.

Technically, the married men are sneaking into her.

Anonymous wrote:This makes no sense. Did you make up this scenario just to ask a question? No one goes around bragging that they stole their husband from another woman. If anything they wouldn't tell people who don't already know.
Try harder.

I agree, I think op started this thread to get ask a question. I've never heard any woman openly brag about stealing someone's husband. In fact, most women who have broken up a marriage try their best to spin the story in order to justify their actions. Most people aren't capable of seeing their actions as out right deplorable, so there's no way they'd brag about being that way.

This makes no sense. Did you make up this scenario just to ask a question? No one goes around bragging that they stole their husband from another woman. If anything they wouldn't tell people who don't already know.
Try harder.

Anonymous wrote:I don't get it! I've encountered quite a few married women that say that they "stole" their husband from their ex wife. Why is this something to be proud of?Don't they ever stop to think that if he can cheat on his first wife, he'll cheat on you too?

Here is hint - they love someone else's leftovers.

Hmm. You are the company you keep, OP.

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Anonymous wrote:Never heard of this. Maybe I give off just enough of a judgy bitch face that they keep that little factoid to themselves around me.

+1 I've never heard of this either. But 1 - I also give off a judgy bitch face and 2 - I don't have friends who would do something like that so...

I do have my sister sneaking into married men. She did it twice in the same work environment.

You need some quality friends, OP.

Wow, you have met some real scumbags.

Anonymous wrote:Never heard of this. Maybe I give off just enough of a judgy bitch face that they keep that little factoid to themselves around me.

+1 I've never heard of this either. But 1 - I also give off a judgy bitch face and 2 - I don't have friends who would do something like that so...

Never heard of this. Maybe I give off just enough of a judgy bitch face that they keep that little factoid to themselves around me.

I don't get it! I've encountered quite a few married women that say that they "stole" their husband from their ex wife. Why is this something to be proud of?Don't they ever stop to think that if he can cheat on his first wife, he'll cheat on you too?