Like others have alluded to, it depends why the cheater is cheating. I think there are plenty who are cheating for the sex - and what the sex represents (e.g. that their spouse loves them and thinks they are desirable enough to inspire passion.) These folks won't cheat if they're having frequent monkey sex with their spouse.

But, others are trying to fill a hole in themselves that has little to do with the actual sex or affirmation of their relationship. They'll still cheat regardless.

Yes. It isn't just the sex. It might be for a lot of men (or women) but there are other reasons to cheat.

Some cheat no matter the circumstance.

Some are faithful no matter the circumstance.

Of course.

Anonymous wrote:Cheating is more about ego and being self centered

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Yes personality flaw big time.

Anonymous wrote:No, cheating is about biology. We all want to get our genes in the gene pool, but a woman can only carry one man's child at any one time, so she is naturally monogamous. A man can have any number of women carrying his children at any one time so it behooves a man to cheat.

No that's when you stay single date all you want enjoying the various std's. Many men do not cheat fyi.

So many excuses cheaters make.

Yes. Will still cheat.

Anonymous wrote:I'm not talking about twice a week duty s*x. More like wild love making after 10+ years of marriage. BJs, sexting, the works. Do these men still seek out affairs?

I think that what you describe would dissuade the percentage of cheaters who cheat because they are sexually unsatisfied. Since that's not 100% of them, no, it will not rule out cheating for everyone.

I'd say it depends on the person. some people are not satisfied until they get everything they desire and some people don't know how good they have it.

Personally I'd give a lot to have even duty sex more than every two weeks but I won't cheat so it goes both ways.

No, cheating is about biology. We all want to get our genes in the gene pool, but a woman can only carry one man's child at any one time, so she is naturally monogamous. A man can have any number of women carrying his children at any one time so it behooves a man to cheat.

Cheating is more about ego and being self centered

I have to believe that your definition of "sexually satisfied" would dissuade 96% of potential cheaters. The other 4% would probably cheat regardless of circumstances.

Cheating is seldom about sex. It's a character flaw.

Either way as far as I'm concerned the marriage is over. If you need to have that kind of deceit in your life you need therapy, and shouldn't be married.

Anonymous wrote:I'm not talking about twice a week duty s*x. More like wild love making after 10+ years of marriage. BJs, sexting, the works. Do these men still seek out affairs?

If you can imagine it odds are it can happen.

I'm not talking about twice a week duty s*x. More like wild love making after 10+ years of marriage. BJs, sexting, the works. Do these men still seek out affairs?