Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No. If she works at losing some weight then I will. If you want compliments then give me something to compliment

Well aren't you simple and superficial! There's more to compliment a person besides their weight.

If her body is what he finds hot or not, then that is likely what he is referring to....since that was the question.

I think my wife is hot.

She doesn't though. She has body image issues and focuses on all the wrong things. When I tell her how hot I think she is, she's very dismissive -- says I'm married to her, so I have to say things like that.

Still, I think my wife is hot. So, I'm going to keep telling her so.

She's often the hottest woman in the room.

I'm a lucky man.

I'd be even luckier if she put out more.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My wife used to be hot, but over the years, she has gained 40 pounds. I don't tell her she's hot, because she isn't. I just keep quiet when she fishes for compliments.

Do you look mostly the same as when you were dating? If so, then you should believe your DH when he says you're hot.

And how is that working for you? I'm sure you'll wonder why you're divorced and alone in a few years.

Do tell: what's your suggestion?

But, if divorce should come:

1) I won't wonder why were are divorced (any marriage without physical attraction is doomed) but I will wonder why she stopped caring about being "hot"

2) I won't be alone for long (I am still "hot")

Anonymous wrote:No. If she works at losing some weight then I will. If you want compliments then give me something to compliment

Well aren't you simple and superficial! There's more to compliment a person besides their weight.

Anonymous wrote:My wife used to be hot, but over the years, she has gained 40 pounds. I don't tell her she's hot, because she isn't. I just keep quiet when she fishes for compliments.

Do you look mostly the same as when you were dating? If so, then you should believe your DH when he says you're hot.

And how is that working for you? I'm sure you'll wonder why you're divorced and alone in a few years.

My DW is gorgeous, couldn't ask for better

My lover is hot.
My wife...meh

Anonymous wrote:My wife used to be hot, but over the years, she has gained 40 pounds. I don't tell her she's hot, because she isn't. I just keep quiet when she fishes for compliments.

Do you look mostly the same as when you were dating? If so, then you should believe your DH when he says you're hot.

My wife can be hot when she wants to be and is a sexual bonfire at times. Looks are always there but being hot is more than just about looks.

Anonymous wrote:
I married a "MaryAnn". I'd say she's cute. Ginger was hot.

I would rather be naked and in bed with your MaryAnn than a Ginger.

I married a "MaryAnn". I'd say she's cute. Ginger was hot.

My wife used to be hot, but over the years, she has gained 40 pounds. I don't tell her she's hot, because she isn't. I just keep quiet when she fishes for compliments.

Do you look mostly the same as when you were dating? If so, then you should believe your DH when he says you're hot.

He's just bad at giving compliments.

My dh is sweet and always tells me I am the most beautiful/hottest woman in the room even when I objectively know I am not!

Is he bluffing? Does he REALLY think I'm the hottest girl ever?