Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:In middle school, all of our child's volunteer hours were to be done at home. She was my personal assistant completing tasks assigned by me like:
1. Wrapping all Christmas presents for her cousin, grandparents, and other family members. (Glorious! And she loved every minute of it.)
2. Getting all of her clothes ready for camp. (We ordinarily do this together, but she took the packing list and got all her clothes and toiletries out, name stamped everything, and made a list of the stuff she needed.)
3. Making dessert for family holiday gathering.
4. Shredding stuff that needed shredding.
I am also not a good rule follower so we also volunteered to cook and serve a meal at a shelter.
This is not volunteering. These are chores.
+1 Pretty sad that she's not actually volunteering. Does it feel good to help your child skirt the system when she could be doing something that helps others?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:In middle school, all of our child's volunteer hours were to be done at home. She was my personal assistant completing tasks assigned by me like:
1. Wrapping all Christmas presents for her cousin, grandparents, and other family members. (Glorious! And she loved every minute of it.)
2. Getting all of her clothes ready for camp. (We ordinarily do this together, but she took the packing list and got all her clothes and toiletries out, name stamped everything, and made a list of the stuff she needed.)
3. Making dessert for family holiday gathering.
4. Shredding stuff that needed shredding.
I am also not a good rule follower so we also volunteered to cook and serve a meal at a shelter.
This is not volunteering. These are chores.
Anonymous wrote:In middle school, all of our child's volunteer hours were to be done at home. She was my personal assistant completing tasks assigned by me like:
1. Wrapping all Christmas presents for her cousin, grandparents, and other family members. (Glorious! And she loved every minute of it.)
2. Getting all of her clothes ready for camp. (We ordinarily do this together, but she took the packing list and got all her clothes and toiletries out, name stamped everything, and made a list of the stuff she needed.)
3. Making dessert for family holiday gathering.
4. Shredding stuff that needed shredding.
I am also not a good rule follower so we also volunteered to cook and serve a meal at a shelter.
Anonymous wrote:In middle school, all of our child's volunteer hours were to be done at home. She was my personal assistant completing tasks assigned by me like:
1. Wrapping all Christmas presents for her cousin, grandparents, and other family members. (Glorious! And she loved every minute of it.)
2. Getting all of her clothes ready for camp. (We ordinarily do this together, but she took the packing list and got all her clothes and toiletries out, name stamped everything, and made a list of the stuff she needed.)
3. Making dessert for family holiday gathering.
4. Shredding stuff that needed shredding.
I am also not a good rule follower so we also volunteered to cook and serve a meal at a shelter.
Anonymous wrote:You can read to cats at animal shelters (at least it is a volunteer option at the Alexandria shelter).