Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Frankly I'd take Hardy. Our son went there, and we are planning to send dd there next year. It's a no brainer when you consider the size.
Why do so many people think that a small school is always better? I can see tangible advantages to a large school (wider offerings in classes and extracurriculars), but beyond the coziness of it and everybody knowing each other, I don't see why a small school is better per se. Honest question.
You're dismissing that "coziness." Relationships are huge. It's a lot harder to fall through the cracks in a small school. During the middle school years, that is a huge plus.
Totally agree. Middle school kids become different creatures as hormones take over and they start to exert independence from their parents. We have the ability to go to either as well and are opting for Hardy. I really prefer knowing that my child will be known to all the staff, and not just by the teachers who are assigned to his team. When I think that Deal has 1500 students across only 3 grades it sort of blows my mind. I toured Deal and it is undoubtedly a beautiful school, beautiful campus. But it feels like a high school. As I walked around Deal when I toured it couldn't help but notice all the spots where I felt kids could be cornered and bullied...yeah, I know, dramatic much? Again, Deal has an undisputed track record as a great school, I just feel a smaller environment is better for my child. Just make the decision that feels best for your child.