Anonymous
Post 02/03/2017 10:08     Subject: Suggestive txt?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Why doesn't he just block her? If he has an iphone, it takes about 3 seconds to do.


He does not have an iPhone.


You can do it on most smart phones.


Keep us updated, OP, as you discover in months to come what's really going on with your husband.
Anonymous
Post 02/03/2017 10:07     Subject: Suggestive txt?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Maybe he thinks blocking her will just escalate things. Would not want her to start coming around in person.


Would she even know, though? I thought if someone was blocked they wouldn't get any feedback.


OP--good point. I don't want her coming around. They do work in the same office building, but that would be too creepy and would equal to unwanted sexual advances.
Anonymous
Post 02/03/2017 09:57     Subject: Suggestive txt?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Why doesn't he just block her? If he has an iphone, it takes about 3 seconds to do.


He does not have an iPhone.


You can do it on most smart phones.
Anonymous
Post 02/03/2017 09:57     Subject: Suggestive txt?
Anonymous wrote:Maybe he thinks blocking her will just escalate things. Would not want her to start coming around in person.


Would she even know, though? I thought if someone was blocked they wouldn't get any feedback.
Anonymous
Post 02/03/2017 09:56     Subject: Suggestive txt?
Most phones allow blocking. This is what he should do.
Anonymous
Post 02/03/2017 09:55     Subject: Suggestive txt?
If for some reason there is no way to block the number, don't engage. I would never give a crazy the satisfaction of knowing that their craziness has hit the target.
Anonymous
Post 02/03/2017 09:55     Subject: Suggestive txt?
Maybe he thinks blocking her will just escalate things. Would not want her to start coming around in person.
Anonymous
Post 02/03/2017 09:54     Subject: Suggestive txt?
Anonymous wrote:Why doesn't he just block her? If he has an iphone, it takes about 3 seconds to do.


He does not have an iPhone.
Anonymous
Post 02/03/2017 09:54     Subject: Suggestive txt?
He needs to block her number. Saying anything to her- even "I'm married leave me alone"- just reinforces her and she'll start sending even more.

Anonymous
Post 02/03/2017 09:53     Subject: Suggestive txt?
If you have asked for him to block her and he hasn't = serious problem. I'm kind of surprised he hasn't offered to block her, and you might consider that there is a reason why.
Anonymous
Post 02/03/2017 09:47     Subject: Suggestive txt?
Why doesn't he just block her? If he has an iphone, it takes about 3 seconds to do.
Anonymous
Post 02/03/2017 09:47     Subject: Suggestive txt?
I'd just say, "hey...she's pretty crazy and her texts are annoying. Would you mind blocking her number?"

If my DH didn't do that for me after I asked politely and without emotion, I think we'd have issues.
Anonymous
Post 02/03/2017 09:47     Subject: Re:Suggestive txt?
can't he block the number?
Anonymous
Post 02/03/2017 09:46     Subject: Re:Suggestive txt?
He needs to tell her to stop and he should change his number.
Anonymous
Post 02/03/2017 09:44     Subject: Suggestive txt?
A former "scorned" lover keeps sending suggestive txt messages with pictures to my new husband. He is not responding to any of it, but it is extremely annoying. The woman crearly has no class, but just would not give up. Should I ask him to tell her that he is married now and to please stop or to just leave it alone?