Anonymous wrote:-$25K a year to own a beach house; 2-4 weeks each summer plus all weekends.
-$10K on an international trip for spring break.
-$2K on odds and ends like a few weekends of local skiing.
HHI $390K; 3 school aged kids.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Almost nothing. We don't have enough vacation days to cover vacations, school closings, sick days, plus visiting family. (Also have small children, definitely was not the case pre-small children!)
Visiting my parents costs us a couple tanks of gas and some food on the road. Visiting his will now cost 4 plane tickets and a rental car. We haven't done it since we had a 2nd kid though H and our oldest are going this summer so we can avoid the car rental thing and just cover the 2 plane tickets, airport food, and food/tickets to whatever they do out there.
Same, except we put all of our extra income into fertility treatments because we've been trying for two years to have a second child.
I'm sorry. I'm the previous poster with 3 kids. We went through this period of life as well as we had to do IVF for our 3 kids (two pregnancies). We scrimped and saved every dollar. I hope you're out of this phase soon and able to vacation again.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Almost nothing. We don't have enough vacation days to cover vacations, school closings, sick days, plus visiting family. (Also have small children, definitely was not the case pre-small children!)
Visiting my parents costs us a couple tanks of gas and some food on the road. Visiting his will now cost 4 plane tickets and a rental car. We haven't done it since we had a 2nd kid though H and our oldest are going this summer so we can avoid the car rental thing and just cover the 2 plane tickets, airport food, and food/tickets to whatever they do out there.
Same, except we put all of our extra income into fertility treatments because we've been trying for two years to have a second child.
Anonymous wrote:Almost nothing. We don't have enough vacation days to cover vacations, school closings, sick days, plus visiting family. (Also have small children, definitely was not the case pre-small children!)
Visiting my parents costs us a couple tanks of gas and some food on the road. Visiting his will now cost 4 plane tickets and a rental car. We haven't done it since we had a 2nd kid though H and our oldest are going this summer so we can avoid the car rental thing and just cover the 2 plane tickets, airport food, and food/tickets to whatever they do out there.