Anonymous
Post 01/20/2017 14:58     Subject: Sexless marriage from a woman's perspective. Help me.

Are you any fun in bed or do you just lay back and expect to be serviced?
Anonymous
Post 01/20/2017 14:55     Subject: Sexless marriage from a woman's perspective. Help me.

Anonymous wrote:Are you doing things around the house to help him? Are you taking care of the lawn, car maintenance, managing investments, changing light bulbs, house repairs or anything? Maybe he is exhausted and could use a little help
We share all responsibility with the house, bills, kids equally.
Anonymous
Post 01/20/2017 14:53     Subject: Sexless marriage from a woman's perspective. Help me.

Are you doing things around the house to help him? Are you taking care of the lawn, car maintenance, managing investments, changing light bulbs, house repairs or anything? Maybe he is exhausted and could use a little help
Anonymous
Post 01/20/2017 14:51     Subject: Re:Sexless marriage from a woman's perspective. Help me.

Anonymous wrote:See a doctor.
He won't. Says he is content with our life the way it is.
Anonymous
Post 01/20/2017 14:50     Subject: Sexless marriage from a woman's perspective. Help me.

Maybe he needs you to learn some new triicks. Ask him to PIIYB
Anonymous
Post 01/20/2017 14:49     Subject: Re:Sexless marriage from a woman's perspective. Help me.

See a doctor.
Anonymous
Post 01/20/2017 14:47     Subject: Re:Sexless marriage from a woman's perspective. Help me.

I don't think you can remedy low sex drive.
Anonymous
Post 01/20/2017 14:44     Subject: Sexless marriage from a woman's perspective. Help me.

Anonymous wrote:Female here, married 21 years.
He has no interest in sex and it seems to me as though he doesn't even get hard.

It's been 8 months since we last had sex.
I want sex everyday. I have NEVER said no to him.

He used to be a twice a month guy. I've dealt with this opposite drive.
Now, he's a twice a year guy.

How do I live this way??? We're both only 45.

What are my steps to remedy this.

If I reference the thread for sexless marriage solved (for a man)
I've done steps 1-7. No success.


Wow, 8 months.
Just setup an account and a dozens of guys will seek to be wth you.

I would for sure.

Anonymous
Post 01/20/2017 14:40     Subject: Sexless marriage from a woman's perspective. Help me.

Anonymous wrote:Tell him you need something more in your relationship. Twice a year at 45 I would leave or get an Ap
I have told him this. He says he loves me, he has no interest in sex at all. I've even initiated several times, he doesn't get hard. This does not seem to both him.
Anonymous
Post 01/20/2017 14:36     Subject: Sexless marriage from a woman's perspective. Help me.

Tell him you need something more in your relationship. Twice a year at 45 I would leave or get an Ap
Anonymous
Post 01/20/2017 14:25     Subject: Re:Sexless marriage from a woman's perspective. Help me.

Anonymous wrote:Ultimatum.

AP.

Move on.
I love him. I can't imagine life without him.
Anonymous
Post 01/20/2017 14:24     Subject: Re:Sexless marriage from a woman's perspective. Help me.

Anonymous wrote:Has he gained weight over the years? Working out often helps the libido.
He works out 6 days a week. We go to the gym together. We're both in good shape. We run 5K, 10K's together.
Anonymous
Post 01/20/2017 14:21     Subject: Re:Sexless marriage from a woman's perspective. Help me.

Has he gained weight over the years? Working out often helps the libido.
Anonymous
Post 01/20/2017 14:16     Subject: Re:Sexless marriage from a woman's perspective. Help me.

Ultimatum.

AP.

Move on.
Anonymous
Post 01/20/2017 14:15     Subject: Sexless marriage from a woman's perspective. Help me.

Female here, married 21 years.
He has no interest in sex and it seems to me as though he doesn't even get hard.

It's been 8 months since we last had sex.
I want sex everyday. I have NEVER said no to him.

He used to be a twice a month guy. I've dealt with this opposite drive.
Now, he's a twice a year guy.

How do I live this way??? We're both only 45.

What are my steps to remedy this.

If I reference the thread for sexless marriage solved (for a man)
I've done steps 1-7. No success.