Anonymous
Post 01/04/2017 10:41     Subject: Re:S/O saying I Love You early on
singledadmclean wrote:I think I said it once, after I'd been married to her for 7 or 8 years.


I actually don't think this PP is kidding. My DH didn't say it to me until after we were engaged, ring and wedding date set. Seriously. We are pretty affectionate as a couple and a family regardless. Together over 20 years, married over 16.
singledadmclean
Post 01/04/2017 10:39     Subject: Re:S/O saying I Love You early on
I think I said it once, after I'd been married to her for 7 or 8 years.
Anonymous
Post 01/04/2017 09:17     Subject: S/O saying I Love You early on
Said it after a week or two. He said it back a week or two after that. We were 19/20 at the time. Together 12 years, married 9 years, 1 child.
Anonymous
Post 01/04/2017 09:01     Subject: Re:S/O saying I Love You early on
After three weeks (of spending each weekend together since we were philly/dc). We had also known one another for 10 years at that time. Married 12 years 3 kids.
Anonymous
Post 01/04/2017 08:23     Subject: S/O saying I Love You early on
My DH said it on the day we met and I thought he was nuts. We've been together 20 years.
Anonymous
Post 01/04/2017 07:42     Subject: S/O saying I Love You early on
Said it about 2 months in. Got engaged 2 months later. Married 5 years, 2 kids.
Anonymous
Post 01/04/2017 07:26     Subject: S/O saying I Love You early on
Said it 2 month in. After a major crisis. I was on massive pain medication in the hospital. Husband (of 11 years) still jokes about it.

Anonymous
Post 01/04/2017 06:15     Subject: S/O saying I Love You early on
Anonymous wrote:My husband said it after the first date. We chatted a lot on the phone before meeting. We're married and have 1 baby. My husband died really love me but he's got anger problems.


After first date is a HUGE red flag.
Anonymous
Post 01/04/2017 06:11     Subject: Re:S/O saying I Love You early on
Said at six days... six years in, married four. So happy and more in love than ever. 1 kid.
Anonymous
Post 01/04/2017 02:43     Subject: S/O saying I Love You early on
About a month. We've been married for over 13 years. Two kids.
Anonymous
Post 01/04/2017 01:50     Subject: Re:S/O saying I Love You early on
No man should ever say this to a woman until at least four months into a relationship.
Anonymous
Post 01/04/2017 01:48     Subject: S/O saying I Love You early on
Previous relationships we said it early on (like 3rd date, which was 1week-10days after starting to date). They all crashed and burned. DH waited 8 months. Together 8 years, married 6, 1 child, very happy.
Anonymous
Post 01/04/2017 01:26     Subject: S/O saying I Love You early on
My husband said it after the first date. We chatted a lot on the phone before meeting. We're married and have 1 baby. My husband died really love me but he's got anger problems.
Anonymous
Post 01/04/2017 00:46     Subject: S/O saying I Love You early on
We said it two weeks in. Married 5y, 2 kids later.
Anonymous
Post 01/04/2017 00:44     Subject: S/O saying I Love You early on
The other thread (http://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/609541.page) got me thinking... If you said "I love you" to your boyfriend/girlfriend/spouse early in the relationship, how did things turn out?