Anonymous
Post 12/19/2016 23:19     Subject: Re:How do you convince an arrogant self-obsessed woman you're not into her

Anonymous wrote:Op, man up and tell her you are not interested and proceed to blocking all forms of contact. This is not rocket science. As a woman I have no problem telling a date, it's not meant to be I wish you luck in your search.


I've literally done nothing to her. It's all in her head. We just work together.
Anonymous
Post 12/19/2016 22:34     Subject: Re:How do you convince an arrogant self-obsessed woman you're not into her

Op, man up and tell her you are not interested and proceed to blocking all forms of contact. This is not rocket science. As a woman I have no problem telling a date, it's not meant to be I wish you luck in your search.
Anonymous
Post 12/19/2016 22:17     Subject: Re:How do you convince an arrogant self-obsessed woman you're not into her

Welcome to our world.

-signed...almost every woman on earth
Anonymous
Post 12/19/2016 22:05     Subject: Re:How do you convince an arrogant self-obsessed woman you're not into her

Get really interested in someone else, right in front of her face. That'll teach her
Anonymous
Post 12/19/2016 21:25     Subject: How do you convince an arrogant self-obsessed woman you're not into her

Stop talking to her.
Anonymous
Post 12/19/2016 21:24     Subject: Re:How do you convince an arrogant self-obsessed woman you're not into her

Anonymous wrote:Why do you care so much?

Maybe you're really into her and just posturing?


She tells people I'm into her. It's fucking weird. And when she talks to me she has this smirk on her face like she's really convinced herself I'm into her.

Not trying to be mean but I find her repulsive in every way. ?
Anonymous
Post 12/19/2016 20:36     Subject: How do you convince an arrogant self-obsessed woman you're not into her

With action, OP. Ignore, stay busy, be polite but vague and a bit dismissive. That's what we ladies do.
Anonymous
Post 12/19/2016 20:29     Subject: Re:How do you convince an arrogant self-obsessed woman you're not into her

The fact that you even posted means she's 100% right.
Anonymous
Post 12/19/2016 20:01     Subject: How do you convince an arrogant self-obsessed woman you're not into her

You tell her you're not into her, that the way she's behaving makes you uncomfortable, and that if it doesn't stop, you will report her to your supervisors/police/etc. If she's in your circle of friends and you are able, cut her off.
Anonymous
Post 12/19/2016 19:56     Subject: How do you convince an arrogant self-obsessed woman you're not into her

I'd be interested to know why this bothers you. I believe most men would lap up the attention, arrogant or not.
Anonymous
Post 12/19/2016 19:50     Subject: Re:How do you convince an arrogant self-obsessed woman you're not into her

Why do you care so much?

Maybe you're really into her and just posturing?
Anonymous
Post 12/19/2016 12:30     Subject: Re:How do you convince an arrogant self-obsessed woman you're not into her

Stop talking to her. If you work together and must interact, use the "grey rock" method.
Anonymous
Post 12/19/2016 12:27     Subject: How do you convince an arrogant self-obsessed woman you're not into her

lead ^^^^
Anonymous
Post 12/19/2016 12:27     Subject: How do you convince an arrogant self-obsessed woman you're not into her

Give examples that leads you to conclude she thinks you're into her.
Anonymous
Post 12/19/2016 12:25     Subject: How do you convince an arrogant self-obsessed woman you're not into her

When she's 100% convinced you are?
It's a really awkward dynamic.