A relative sent my 11 year old DD this dress. She likes it, but I think it looks like something a 5 year old will wear. I'm afraid she will be teased if she wears it anywhere. (We don't have any formal events ... ever... so if she wears it anywhere, it would be to church or a recital or something like that, where she would probably be terribly overdressed and could conceivably see other girls or boys from the neighborhood.) I hate to push her to be MORE mature, but I also don't want her teased and don't think she has a good barometer for this sort of thing. Should I encourage her to return it? Or am I being overly concerned? I looked online and unfortunately I think all the dresses they have are hideous.
http://www.brooksbrothers.com/Silk-Smocked-Dress/GD00264,default,pd.html?dwvar_GD00264_Color=DKRD&contentpos=3&cgid=1086