Anonymous
Post 12/13/2016 16:04     Subject: What gift to bring when someone invites you to their house for dinner?

To 16:01-- are you as snarky in person as you are online??
Anonymous
Post 12/13/2016 16:03     Subject: What gift to bring when someone invites you to their house for dinner?

flowers
Anonymous
Post 12/13/2016 16:01     Subject: Re:What gift to bring when someone invites you to their house for dinner?

Just wine (or beer for more casual, or good liquor from a friend who knows our drinking habits). We host regularly. I don't want flowers - too much effort, not necessarily my style or color scheme, etc. I don't want a box of chocolates. Certainly I don't want you to bring dessert because I spent an hour that day making a pie from scratch. I will drink your wine either that night or in the next couple weeks, or If I don't like it, I can easily regift it.

I have a drawer in our house fliled with junk that people bring - candles, cheese knives, merry xmas dishcloths, whatever else. My friends only want wine so I can never properly regift it. I throw it all out every year or so.

I seriously don't want anything other than wine.

Anonymous
Post 12/13/2016 15:45     Subject: Re:What gift to bring when someone invites you to their house for dinner?

Anonymous wrote:A writer? I would get a notepad with "From the desk of Sarah" and a nice cross pen for her desk.


That would seriously make me think you had a girl crush on me.

The olive oil thing is good, but a really nice bottle of wine is always welcome and not pervy.
Anonymous
Post 12/13/2016 15:29     Subject: Re:What gift to bring when someone invites you to their house for dinner?

A writer? I would get a notepad with "From the desk of Sarah" and a nice cross pen for her desk.
Anonymous
Post 12/13/2016 14:24     Subject: Re:What gift to bring when someone invites you to their house for dinner?

You could do a soap set from someplace like Williams Sonoma. But wine is always appreciated!!
Anonymous
Post 12/13/2016 14:05     Subject: Re:What gift to bring when someone invites you to their house for dinner?

Just hosted a large holiday party and the best gifts we received were gourmet olive oil, vinegar and a really nice candle.
Anonymous
Post 12/13/2016 14:02     Subject: What gift to bring when someone invites you to their house for dinner?

booze or artisan bakery goods like pie or quiche
Anonymous
Post 12/13/2016 14:02     Subject: What gift to bring when someone invites you to their house for dinner?

Gin.
Anonymous
Post 12/13/2016 13:58     Subject: What gift to bring when someone invites you to their house for dinner?

Booze.
Anonymous
Post 12/13/2016 13:46     Subject: What gift to bring when someone invites you to their house for dinner?

Paper whites are a good gift this time of year. (It's a plant)
Anonymous
Post 12/13/2016 13:44     Subject: Re:What gift to bring when someone invites you to their house for dinner?

Something that doesn't take any effort on her part to receive it. Nothing that has to be unwrapped right away. Nothing that has to go in a vase, or on a platter or stored somewhere in the crowded fridge. Chocolates, good olive oil and balsamic, or something she uses for her hobbies like spices maybe?
Anonymous
Post 12/13/2016 13:42     Subject: What gift to bring when someone invites you to their house for dinner?

Wine. It's not boring. Barring that, a small bouquet of flowers or small plant.
Anonymous
Post 12/13/2016 13:42     Subject: What gift to bring when someone invites you to their house for dinner?

I get mothers macaroons in Arlington, or some chocolate or flowers.
Anonymous
Post 12/13/2016 13:41     Subject: What gift to bring when someone invites you to their house for dinner?

Wine seems so boring. Any other ideas? Impressive woman who writes for a major paper. What to bring to her house for a gift?