Anonymous wrote:Huh? According to who?
I'm bi, and I think women stay attractive for muuuuuucccchhhhh longer than men. Women can still be hot well into their 40s, perhaps even beyond that (I'm in my 20s, so when I'm looking to date I wouldnt be interested in anyone with more than a 20 year age difference, so I stop looking at past 40s). Men my age have already started looking wrinkly, going bald, getting paunches.
Women are taught to take care of themselves, wear sunscreen, etc. As a result they look younger and hotter for longer.
Don't worry OP! Plenty of people thinker older women are hot as hell, and I think way more desirable/desired than men of the same age.
Anonymous wrote:Huh? According to who?
I'm bi, and I think women stay attractive for muuuuuucccchhhhh longer than men. Women can still be hot well into their 40s, perhaps even beyond that (I'm in my 20s, so when I'm looking to date I wouldnt be interested in anyone with more than a 20 year age difference, so I stop looking at past 40s). Men my age have already started looking wrinkly, going bald, getting paunches.
Women are taught to take care of themselves, wear sunscreen, etc. As a result they look younger and hotter for longer.
Don't worry OP! Plenty of people thinker older women are hot as hell, and I think way more desirable/desired than men of the same age.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:It seems like men and society prize women for a very short period of their life. Women's physical beauty starts to bloom at around 16, blossoms at around 18-22 and then stays slowly decreases until we hit 30. Then all of a sudden that youthful glow is gone. The moment we turn 30 and start to look like "women" and not girls, we are invisible to society.
How should we deal?
As women have dealt with it for as long as we can remember. Use that physical beauty to marry a rich man.

Anonymous wrote:It seems like men and society prize women for a very short period of their life. Women's physical beauty starts to bloom at around 16, blossoms at around 18-22 and then stays slowly decreases until we hit 30. Then all of a sudden that youthful glow is gone. The moment we turn 30 and start to look like "women" and not girls, we are invisible to society.
How should we deal?
Anonymous wrote:What'd going on in your life where your only value is your looks? I never traded on that and have always felt valued by my professional colleagues / my friends / my family / others I cross paths with.