Anonymous
12/08/2016 15:05
Subject: Why are some people so LOUD?
Anonymous wrote:Some people don't realize they are loud. It is how they talk, and the people that know them and love them don't mind, so you don't matter. Are we clear now, OP?
No we mind. We've tried to tell you to speak quieter. You do it for a bit and then revert back. Now we only say something when it's significantly out of control. But don't think for a minute that it's not grating.
Anonymous
12/08/2016 15:05
Subject: Re:Why are some people so LOUD?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I am normally loud. Very loud. It is my default. I literally cannot help it. My husband shushes me all the time. It's just who I am.
Really? Have you tried? Why do you do it?
I could help it but I'd have to make a concerted effort for every word I said. It's like me telling you have to whisper all day long. Sure, you could do it, but not only would it be a pain in the ass to keep trying, inevitably you would slip back into your normal speech pattern at some point.
I don't "do it" on purpose. It's just who I am.
Anonymous
12/08/2016 15:04
Subject: Why are some people so LOUD?
Anonymous wrote:I'm a nanny and the family I currently work for are loud. The mom is loud and messy and all three kids are loud and messy. There's only so much I can do to modulate it...shushing, reminding to use inside voices, time out for yelling and screaming, but I think some people are just wired to be loud.
+1
It's not rocket science. Why are some people so timid and nasal? Because they were taught they are of no consequence?
See how stupid your question is, OP? Probably not. LOL.
Anonymous
12/08/2016 15:03
Subject: Why are some people so LOUD?
Some people don't realize they are loud. It is how they talk, and the people that know them and love them don't mind, so you don't matter. Are we clear now, OP?
Anonymous
12/08/2016 15:03
Subject: Why are some people so LOUD?
I'm a nanny and the family I currently work for are loud. The mom is loud and messy and all three kids are loud and messy. There's only so much I can do to modulate it...shushing, reminding to use inside voices, time out for yelling and screaming, but I think some people are just wired to be loud.
Anonymous
12/08/2016 15:02
Subject: Re:Why are some people so LOUD?
Anonymous wrote:My son is a double threat. ADHD AND hearing loss since birth. He would drive you nuts. We are working with a specialist to help him understand how to have conversations with others, and manage his impulsivity and confusion when he can't follow conversations.
Sounds trite, but remember that people are fighting battles you will never know or comprehend. This little 6 year old amazing guy is one of them.
OP here. I'm not really talking about children here. I know they're loud. You don't have to defend your son. I'm talking about (as some people on DCUM like to say) "grown ass adults."
Anonymous
12/08/2016 15:01
Subject: Re:Why are some people so LOUD?
Anonymous wrote:I am normally loud. Very loud. It is my default. I literally cannot help it. My husband shushes me all the time. It's just who I am.
Really? Have you tried? Why do you do it?
Anonymous
12/08/2016 15:00
Subject: Why are some people so LOUD?
I've noticed two types:
1) A lot of loud talkers need attention. They want others to notice.
2) Angry women.
1) A lot of loud talkers need attention. They want others to notice.
2) Angry women.
Anonymous
12/08/2016 14:58
Subject: Re:Why are some people so LOUD?
I am normally loud. Very loud. It is my default. I literally cannot help it. My husband shushes me all the time. It's just who I am.
Anonymous
12/08/2016 14:58
Subject: Re:Why are some people so LOUD?
My son is a double threat. ADHD AND hearing loss since birth. He would drive you nuts. We are working with a specialist to help him understand how to have conversations with others, and manage his impulsivity and confusion when he can't follow conversations.
Sounds trite, but remember that people are fighting battles you will never know or comprehend. This little 6 year old amazing guy is one of them.
Sounds trite, but remember that people are fighting battles you will never know or comprehend. This little 6 year old amazing guy is one of them.
Anonymous
12/08/2016 14:52
Subject: Why are some people so LOUD?
They must know. I know that as a parent I am constantly telling my child to speak quieter, that there's not need to be so loud. Children become adults so they must have heard it at some point that they're too loud.
Anonymous
12/08/2016 14:52
Subject: Why are some people so LOUD?
My father is profoundly deaf. If he can't hear what you're saying, he oddly assumes you're whispering about him and gets huffy. So we basically yell all of our conversations. I'm sure it bleeds over to my everyday life.
Anonymous
12/08/2016 14:52
Subject: Why are some people so LOUD?
ADHD
Anonymous
12/08/2016 14:51
Subject: Why are some people so LOUD?
cool story bro
Anonymous
12/08/2016 14:49
Subject: Why are some people so LOUD?
I wonder if they know they are? It's grating at best. Super annoying.
If you're loud and realize it, have you tried to modulate your voice?
If you're loud and realize it, have you tried to modulate your voice?