Anonymous
10/31/2016 00:09
Subject: Husband "married beneath him"
I hope he's met a stellar divorce attorney through you because that's his next step. You're nuts.
Anonymous
10/30/2016 23:52
Subject: Re:Husband "married beneath him"
I don't even understand your post OP.
Anonymous
10/30/2016 23:39
Subject: Husband "married beneath him"
I'm also an attorney turned SAHM. hmm.
(I don't get why you are checking his search history, btw...this doesn't sound like a healthy situation)
You say you saw this and confronted your DH. I think part of the reason you can't get past it is no matter how much you rip into him and list all the stuff you do as a SAHM, confronting him doesn't open up the discussion for you to figure out where his head is at. So you assume the worst. Confronting him does not create the right environment for him to be truthful with you.
(I don't get why you are checking his search history, btw...this doesn't sound like a healthy situation)
You say you saw this and confronted your DH. I think part of the reason you can't get past it is no matter how much you rip into him and list all the stuff you do as a SAHM, confronting him doesn't open up the discussion for you to figure out where his head is at. So you assume the worst. Confronting him does not create the right environment for him to be truthful with you.
Anonymous
10/30/2016 23:25
Subject: Husband "married beneath him"
Anonymous wrote:Even if he did think that no man would be trolling the googles to read articles about it. Only women over analyze that kind of shit. Let it go.
Ummmmm.... according to his search results he is?
Man, you people are dumb.
Anonymous
10/30/2016 23:24
Subject: Husband "married beneath him"
Anonymous wrote:You sound really annoying, insecure, and shrill.
I pity your husband.
This.
He'll probably be googling divorce next.
Anonymous
10/30/2016 23:21
Subject: Husband "married beneath him"
You sound really annoying, insecure, and shrill.
I pity your husband.
I pity your husband.
Anonymous
10/30/2016 23:17
Subject: Husband "married beneath him"
Even if he did think that no man would be trolling the googles to read articles about it. Only women over analyze that kind of shit. Let it go.
Anonymous
10/30/2016 23:17
Subject: Re:Husband "married beneath him"
Ummm his explanation sounds reasonable. Unless he's like a Rockefeller and you aren't telling us.
Anonymous
10/30/2016 23:16
Subject: Husband "married beneath him"
What did you complain about that drove him to do the search?
Anonymous
10/30/2016 23:16
Subject: Re:Husband "married beneath him"
Nothing. I'm secure in myself, my station in life and my marriage.
Anonymous
10/30/2016 23:15
Subject: Husband "married beneath him"
Anonymous wrote:I found in my husband's internet search history an article with the topic "I married beneath me." I confronted him, and he said that because I complained of marriage inequality, he was googling marriage inequality and that this was a subject that popped up. Then he said because of my complaint, he thought "I" was thinking that he married beneath him. So it was preemptive.
I can't get past this. I'm an attorney turned SAHM because of his rigorous work/travel schedule.
What would you do if you saw this in your husband's search history?
Make a note to myself not to snoop around in my spouse's search history in the future.
Anonymous
10/30/2016 23:14
Subject: Husband "married beneath him"
I wouldn't assume the worst because I know how easy it is to meander online.
Do you believe he married beneath him? If you are insecure about something that's okay, but you don't want to blame him for that.
Do you believe he married beneath him? If you are insecure about something that's okay, but you don't want to blame him for that.
Anonymous
10/30/2016 23:13
Subject: Husband "married beneath him"
I'd think he was a douchebag.
Anonymous
10/30/2016 23:13
Subject: Husband "married beneath him"
Was that his actual search term or was that the title of the article that came up after he did whatever search he did?
Anonymous
10/30/2016 23:12
Subject: Husband "married beneath him"
I found in my husband's internet search history an article with the topic "I married beneath me." I confronted him, and he said that because I complained of marriage inequality, he was googling marriage inequality and that this was a subject that popped up. Then he said because of my complaint, he thought "I" was thinking that he married beneath him. So it was preemptive.
I can't get past this. I'm an attorney turned SAHM because of his rigorous work/travel schedule.
What would you do if you saw this in your husband's search history?
I can't get past this. I'm an attorney turned SAHM because of his rigorous work/travel schedule.
What would you do if you saw this in your husband's search history?