I wish him to be functional and successful for the sake of my kids. I don't really care if he is happy in his personal life as long as he holds it together for them.

I also know he's an unhappy and insecure person underneath the happy front he puts on for everyone else. I don't need to wish him ill because I already think his choices are going to come back to bite him in the ass one day.

I wish all of my ex-boyfriends all the grief + suffering that they gave to me. Tenfold.

That is the only way that I know they will ever learn to treat others w/pure respect.

Period.

I am completely indifferent. I refuse to expend any energy on him. He's already taken enough. And it has taken a lot of time and effort to get to a point of indifference.

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Anonymous wrote:I wish nothing but the worst for my ex. He beat me within inches of my life, also attacking me with a broken wine bottle, cutting up my face, neck, and arms. This is not a man I can ever be indifferent towards. I will always hate him for what he did to me.

Thats horrible. I'm so sorry for you, PP. Add me to the list of people hoping he has a horrible, horrific life. I will be sending bad karma and energy in his direction. Glad you have moved on now.

May abusers and rapists burn in hell. Amen.

Agreed, from experience. I have always believed karma would catch up, and maybe it has or will. I have no idea.

Anonymous wrote:I wish nothing but the worst for my ex. He beat me within inches of my life, also attacking me with a broken wine bottle, cutting up my face, neck, and arms. This is not a man I can ever be indifferent towards. I will always hate him for what he did to me.

Thats horrible. I'm so sorry for you, PP. Add me to the list of people hoping he has a horrible, horrific life. I will be sending bad karma and energy in his direction. Glad you have moved on now.

May abusers and rapists burn in hell. Amen.

I hate him for how the treated me throughout the relationship like if I was nothing. But I don't wish anything bad to happen to him, just rather not think about it.

I wish nothing but the worst for my ex. He beat me within inches of my life, also attacking me with a broken wine bottle, cutting up my face, neck, and arms. This is not a man I can ever be indifferent towards. I will always hate him for what he did to me.

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Anonymous wrote:Yes, because he deserves it.

Deserves what

Deserves happiness. He is a kind, sensitive soul who wasn't at all sure at the time where he was, what he was doing, and couldn't meet what was expected of him. Full of internal turmoil. I hope he's doing better.

Anonymous wrote:Yes, because he deserves it.

Deserves what

Yes, because he deserves it.

Yes

However, my ex that I have a child with is an abuser. He continues to destroy out child and other women's children everyday. I can only hope karma or God handles him.

Indifference is the opposite of love
No I don't think it's immature but it shows you are still very bitter and cannot move on

Yeah. But we were able to split up when we saw it wasn't going to get better, but before we viciously hated each other. So after a while, we went back to just being friends, and we have both moved on romantically.

I'm guessing he cheated on you? How did the relationship end?

I don't. I wish nothing but unhappiness and horrible things to happen to him. Does this mean I don't really love him because I don't want him to be happy even if it means he's not with me? Does this mean I'm awful and immature?

I just want him to be as unhappy as he's made me. I want what he did to me to happen to him.

PLEASE just give me some honest answers