Anonymous wrote:tsuro. seriously, no words to read, and adults love it too. Lots can play at once too (I think up to 9) and it goes quickly so that even the cook could play a few games in between kitchen tasks.
Anonymous wrote:Memory.
Second Spot-It.
Possibly Sleeping Queens.
Also consider playing games with the 11 year old and adults where the 4 year old is on your "team." That's how we taught my youngest Rat-a-tat-cat.