Married 17 years -- together 18
One teenager
Sex a handful of times per year
No, not happy about it. Tired of being rejected so I don't initiate any more. My husband either has someone on the side (I don't know when he would find the time) or he low drive due to stress. I would like to have sex a few times per week.

1) how long together/ married? 17 years together; Married 11
2) ages of kids: 7 and 4
3) how often do you have sex? 2x - 4x per year
4) are you happy with the amount? No. DH either has a very low drive or I am kidding myself and he has someone on the side (which I cannot imagine). He one time called me a nymphomaniac in a critical way and ever since then, I feel embarrassed initiating (so now sex is just plain awkward), but I'd say I still initiate 1/2 of the time. Depressing.

-Together 18 years/Married 12 years
-Kids are 5 and 3
-2-3 times per weeK
-yes for the first time ever I think we are both satisfied sexually. My drive went up BIG time after getting off the pill, and his seems to have decreased ever so slightly (used to be insane), so we met in the middle I think finally.

20/15 years
Kids are 13, 11, 1.5 & 1.5
Averages to about once a week
I'd like more. I have no idea what DH thinks about it. He doesn't seem to care.

1.) 11/ 8 yrs
2.) 6 and 4
3.) 1-2xs/wk, recently more like 2
4.) could use more, I'm the wife!

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:1) married almost nine years
2) kids are 8, 7, 5, 2, & expecting
3). 2-3 x/ wk, but sometimes it is just oral. We have "adventurous sex" about twice a month.
4). It's really a little more than what I need, but I am happy to make my husband happy. He would probably like a little more often and like me to initiate more often.

You're a very generous wife in the bedroom department. It is not 'just' oral. Oral is awesome. And adventurous twice per month is very good.

Impressed and jealous.

+1.

Anonymous wrote:1) married almost nine years
2) kids are 8, 7, 5, 2, & expecting
3). 2-3 x/ wk, but sometimes it is just oral. We have "adventurous sex" about twice a month.
4). It's really a little more than what I need, but I am happy to make my husband happy. He would probably like a little more often and like me to initiate more often.

You're a very generous wife in the bedroom department. It is not 'just' oral. Oral is awesome. And adventurous twice per month is very good.

Impressed and jealous.

8/5 years
9 month old
Once a week
I'm happy for now (dw here) DH would like more and I would like more. Waiting to wean and for my libido to come back.

1) together 12, married 7
2) 5 and 3
3) 1-2x per week
4) Happy enough. I know many in this boat have it worse. Would be fine with me if half the Os with my wife were from BJs, but I probably get fewer than 6 of those per year.

1) how long together/ married?

19 years, 17 years

2) ages of kids

14, 8, 6

3) how often do you have sex?

Once this year

4) are you happy with the amount?

Take a wild guess. Not at all. Marital problems past year, working through them, but it's hard.

Married 10 years, kids 6 and 8, sex once a week, a huge improvement from sex once a month. I would like more, she would like less. Typical, I assume.

1) married almost nine years
2) kids are 8, 7, 5, 2, & expecting
3). 2-3 x/ wk, but sometimes it is just oral. We have "adventurous sex" about twice a month.
4). It's really a little more than what I need, but I am happy to make my husband happy. He would probably like a little more often and like me to initiate more often.

20 years
Kids 11 & 12
Sex once a month
Do not like. I'm unhappy with the low frequency.

Because it's super annoying when OP's don't do their own polls:

1) together 13 years, married 9
2) kids are 5 and 2
3) 1-2x week
4) i (DW) think it's fine. DH would prefer more but understands that things could be worse with young kids!

1) how long together/ married?
2) ages of kids
3) how often do you have sex?
4) are you happy with the amount?