Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She's cheating on you.

No she's not. My first wife cheated on me and I know the signs. She's a great wife.

If you know the signs of infidelity as you say you do, you'd know that one of them is a renewed/increased interest in sex, as the cheater uses the accessible spouse as an outlet for his/her increased desire. Hopefully this isn't your situation but never say never.

Anonymous wrote:Maybe she has been reading DCUM? I am kind of new here and it opened my eyes how my DH probably felt about our sex life and I made a point to be more attentive to him, initate more etc..

You're new here....just wait and you will see that how a DH feels is his fault and how a DW feels is also DH's fault. You'll figure out how sorry and sad people on this forum are. Get out while you can!!!

Hormones, ovulation.

I hit something that made me get going with DH for a few really good months.

No basis for it except biological, and positive loop. I've never cheated, nor will I ever! Love my DH. (8 years, 2 kids in)

Is there anything that DOESN'T get the DCUM harpies to suggest cheating? No sex? Spouse is cheating. More sex than usual? Spouse is cheating. Jesus Christ.

Anonymous wrote:Enjoy it and quite analyzing everything to death!

Agree! OP-stop reading this thread while you can. The cheating accusations will be 10 pages deep soon.

Enjoy it and quite analyzing everything to death!

Have you been doing anything different to bring about this change?

Does she want anything unusual or is it pretty much the same sex you always had? Sudden interest in a new and different type of sex is a red flag for cheating.

Maybe she has been reading DCUM? I am kind of new here and it opened my eyes how my DH probably felt about our sex life and I made a point to be more attentive to him, initate more etc..

My wife was the same way when she wanted another child.... after that well.... sometimes you have to just take matters into your own hand and live with it.

Hormone changes for the best? Is she in her late 30's early 40's???

I don't think she is cheating OP. Enjoy yourself and make sure you do something nice for her. Come home with flowers or something.

No, I don't think she's cheating. I think she's trying something to see what happens. Unless she LOVES sex, I would expect the frequency to taper off again at some point, but hopefully come to rest in a better place.

Are you guys Jewish? Maybe it was a New Year's resolution!

Anonymous wrote:She's cheating on you.

No she's not. My first wife cheated on me and I know the signs. She's a great wife.

Anonymous wrote:She's cheating on you.

Yes, I think she is too. She is missing the other, so for now, or while she is with you, you get the benefits...but she is thinking of other

She's cheating on you.

and seems to look forward to sex.

I'm VERY thankful and have made sure that I've thanked her and given her postive feedback.

I even got a bj during the debate Sunday night (sorry if thats too explicit for this forum)! Elections must turn her on because the last one was about 4 years ago!

Anyway, I'm really excited about the changes and its certainly having a positive effect on our relationship.