Anonymous wrote:
Oh that's awful. SURELY you can find something better.
NP here -- You know your response was mean, right? At our kids' school, this dress would stand out as a bit casual, yes, but it's not like the girl wearing it is fated to star in "Carrie" or anything. FWIW, my DD, a senior, has found dance dresses at many stores in the area. Francesca's is pretty reliable, but she's also had good luck at Nordstrom and Anthropologie. She is slender and tends toward more modest dresses. You can find something that's not strapless and yet has a party feeling to it -- try looking for a dress with some lace, or sparkles (in limited quantities) or with a swishy skirt. The PP who suggested a shrug was brilliant. Strappy shoes are popular, of course, but a nude wedge can also work -- and feel less precarious.