Anonymous wrote:High school. You can invite them separately when they are in high school.
Before that they are too young, and you are setting their mother up to deal with hurt feelings and jealousy.
Anonymous wrote:Wow, I disagree with everyone. I'd say as soon as you hit kindergarten you should invite only your own friends. Twins are individual people.
OP, I think 8 is PLENTY old enough to just invite the one twin she's friends with.
Anonymous wrote:Omg it's one kid! Why are people so cheap about birthday parties!
Anonymous wrote:You always invite both.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:DD is turning 8 (2nd grade) and we are planning a party with about 10 kids. She's been in school for the last 3 years with a set of twins, one of whom she gets along with much better than the other. The girls invited will be a mix from her current class (which includes the preferred twin) and friends from her aftercare program. Do we still need to invite the other twin to avoid hurt feelings? Haven't discussed the guest list with DD but I know her first reaction will be to invite only one. Is 7/8 too young to exclude when twins are involved?
I would say it's OK but only if the twins are not in aftercare b/c there is no contact with the other twin.
Anonymous wrote:DD is turning 8 (2nd grade) and we are planning a party with about 10 kids. She's been in school for the last 3 years with a set of twins, one of whom she gets along with much better than the other. The girls invited will be a mix from her current class (which includes the preferred twin) and friends from her aftercare program. Do we still need to invite the other twin to avoid hurt feelings? Haven't discussed the guest list with DD but I know her first reaction will be to invite only one. Is 7/8 too young to exclude when twins are involved?
Anonymous wrote:DD is turning 8 (2nd grade) and we are planning a party with about 10 kids. She's been in school for the last 3 years with a set of twins, one of whom she gets along with much better than the other. The girls invited will be a mix from her current class (which includes the preferred twin) and friends from her aftercare program. Do we still need to invite the other twin to avoid hurt feelings? Haven't discussed the guest list with DD but I know her first reaction will be to invite only one. Is 7/8 too young to exclude when twins are involved?
Anonymous wrote:DD is turning 8 (2nd grade) and we are planning a party with about 10 kids. She's been in school for the last 3 years with a set of twins, one of whom she gets along with much better than the other. The girls invited will be a mix from her current class (which includes the preferred twin) and friends from her aftercare program. Do we still need to invite the other twin to avoid hurt feelings? Haven't discussed the guest list with DD but I know her first reaction will be to invite only one. Is 7/8 too young to exclude when twins are involved?