Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Make sure trust is set up wherever the trustee - not necessarily the beneficiary - lives.
Agree you need someone with this specific expertise.
What is the thinking on why it should be set-up where trustee lives? To add to the discussion (OP here), yes trustee is in MoCo.
For ease of reporting to the court on distributions that have been made and so forth we were advised to set it up here. Again could very depending on the jurisdictions involved.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Thanks all so far. Any tips on issues that have caused SN to not financial qualify for state assistance post age 18 that we should watch out for?
This is what you have an attorney for!
Yes, exactly. Listen to your attorney.
And I would see a highly rated estate attorney. They will take you through your whole estate and you will continue that relationship long term.
You don't have to look for 'special needs experience'. Any good estate attorney will have that experience as he/she will have dealt with many families and plenty of them will have SN family members.
Look for quality and experience in an attorney. I would steer very clear of anyone who steers you toward any specific financial planners. If you ask and they have recommendations - ok. If they talk about a financial group or [/b]fund [b]a lot - not good.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Thanks all so far. Any tips on issues that have caused SN to not financial qualify for state assistance post age 18 that we should watch out for?
This is what you have an attorney for!
Anonymous wrote:Thanks all so far. Any tips on issues that have caused SN to not financial qualify for state assistance post age 18 that we should watch out for?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Make sure trust is set up wherever the trustee - not necessarily the beneficiary - lives.
Agree you need someone with this specific expertise.
What is the thinking on why it should be set-up where trustee lives? To add to the discussion (OP here), yes trustee is in MoCo.
Anonymous wrote:Make sure trust is set up wherever the trustee - not necessarily the beneficiary - lives.
Agree you need someone with this specific expertise.
Anonymous wrote:I have a teeny bit of experience in dealing with this with an older relative where it was not set up properly, affected his social security disability eligibility, and was a big, expensive mess. Find a lawyer specializing in this kind of thing if at all possible. A good trust and estates attorney should be able to handle it or refer you to someone who can.