Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:First, she is a woman, not a girl.

Geeze is that big of a deal? Either you're going to answer his question or not.

NP here. PP is doing OP a favor -- it's an important distinction.

Its an important distinction when and if she ever matures and actually starts acting like a grown person. Her behavior per OP's post doesn't sound like a grown person to me.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:First, she is a woman, not a girl.

Geeze is that big of a deal? Either you're going to answer his question or not.

NP here. PP is doing OP a favor -- it's an important distinction.

Anonymous wrote:First, she is a woman, not a girl.

Geeze is that big of a deal? Either you're going to answer his question or not.

First, she is a woman, not a girl.

Anonymous wrote:What is she concerned about? That you are moving? That she hasn't spoken to you?

Just about my well being hence the pick me up stuff in the bag

Do you want to be with her or not? I can't tell.

What is she concerned about? That you are moving? That she hasn't spoken to you?

Anonymous wrote:Guy here. It's over so just move on. Learn the lesson - don't act like an asshat and grow up. Learn to actually communicate when you have a disagreement or an argument - you know, actually talking it through.

But why are you saying it's over?

Guy here. It's over so just move on. Learn the lesson - don't act like an asshat and grow up. Learn to actually communicate when you have a disagreement or an argument - you know, actually talking it through.

Anonymous wrote:I am confused

+ 1 Too much drama regardless. If you broke up, stay that way. You're young, there are plenty of other young women to date.

Well when you said you were in her city and she didn't bite, that's not a good sign. As she said she was concerned so I'm sure she still cares but I don't think she wants to be with you.

Seems like she still cares but that's as far as it goes.

Me too.

I am confused

Young (21) year old in need of some mature advice. Thanks.

So the girl i was seeing ended things with me a few weeks ago. She apologized a week later for overreacting pretty much. I responded back but then she went days without saying anything. After 4 days she asked to see me but I just was still pissed about the whole to be honest so I wasn't receptive. Anyways she and I haven't talked in weeks. Based on her snaps she seems just fine.

On Tuesday I get text from her saying hey headed home (she lives a few hours away) I left some stuff for you by the front door. I told my roommate to go outside and check and to bring it in. I replied back ok thanks. A few minutes later I sent her another text saying that my roommate just told me and that I was in Dover (her city). All she said back was no problem...okay cool.

I get back to my town today and in the bag she has a note that says hope all is well. It's been a while. Ran into your roommate this weekend and heard that you're moving soon. I was just concerned so I go you a few pick me ups. Could be wrong and if I am just take it as a housewarming and pay it forward.

What the heck?