Anonymous
Post 09/16/2016 11:57     Subject: Someone has a work crush on me -- what's appropriate?

Op just take a little time to think of how fun it would be to be totally in control of the crush.
Anonymous
Post 09/16/2016 10:16     Subject: Someone has a work crush on me -- what's appropriate?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Someone at work has a crush on me. We have no work-related interaction and no reason to speak. He just looks dreamy when he sees me (desks are nearby). I'm married and not looking for anything except maybe some social interaction. Thanks!


By "social interaction" do you mean "sex?"


No that means string him along and enjoy the validation and attention without ever giving him sex.

See how much you can get the poor fool to do for you even though he's not getting any action! And he's always there "in reserve" in case your marriage gets boring.
Anonymous
Post 09/16/2016 10:13     Subject: Someone has a work crush on me -- what's appropriate?

Anonymous wrote:Someone at work has a crush on me. We have no work-related interaction and no reason to speak. He just looks dreamy when he sees me (desks are nearby). I'm married and not looking for anything except maybe some social interaction. Thanks!


Reverse the genders of the individuals involved, i.e., young female intern and older man. Don't do anything that if an older man did it, would make him a creep.
Anonymous
Post 09/16/2016 09:54     Subject: Re:Someone has a work crush on me -- what's appropriate?

Will this have legs like the mailman made up thread?
Anonymous
Post 09/16/2016 09:39     Subject: Someone has a work crush on me -- what's appropriate?

Anonymous wrote:Someone at work has a crush on me. We have no work-related interaction and no reason to speak. He just looks dreamy when he sees me (desks are nearby). I'm married and not looking for anything except maybe some social interaction. Thanks!


By "social interaction" do you mean "sex?"
Anonymous
Post 09/16/2016 09:36     Subject: Re:Someone has a work crush on me -- what's appropriate?


Flash your boobs. If he smiles, it's DEFINITELY a crush.
Anonymous
Post 09/16/2016 07:56     Subject: Re:Someone has a work crush on me -- what's appropriate?

OP - so no interaction, no flirting. Just him looking "dreamy"?

Um...

Are you sure this guy has a crush on you? Wishful thinking or just projecting?
Anonymous
Post 09/16/2016 07:46     Subject: Someone has a work crush on me -- what's appropriate?

Quickie in closet.
Anonymous
Post 09/16/2016 07:16     Subject: Re:Someone has a work crush on me -- what's appropriate?

Fart and burp in front of him.
Anonymous
Post 09/16/2016 07:11     Subject: Someone has a work crush on me -- what's appropriate?

Mention your husband every single time you see him. And your menstrual cramps.
Anonymous
Post 09/15/2016 21:52     Subject: Someone has a work crush on me -- what's appropriate?

This happens to me all the time. I just get a good chuckle out of it in private and act civil but professional with the person.
Anonymous
Post 09/15/2016 18:42     Subject: Someone has a work crush on me -- what's appropriate?

This thread feels like Groundhog Day. Bill Murray, is that you?
Anonymous
Post 09/15/2016 18:35     Subject: Someone has a work crush on me -- what's appropriate?

Oh pp here. Getting a kick out of talking to him is all that's appropriate. Don't go down that slippery slope op.
Anonymous
Post 09/15/2016 18:32     Subject: Someone has a work crush on me -- what's appropriate?

Ha op something similar happened to me. We have a really fresh graduate who just started at work. I'm not a big shot per se but I kind of run things. I organized a lunch recently and while I was introducing the discussion subject, I caught his eye and the way he was looking at me was intense, lol! It threw me off for a second, and I guess I'm still not sure if that's just how he looks at women but for the moment I'm enjoying feeling attractive.
Anonymous
Post 09/15/2016 18:24     Subject: Someone has a work crush on me -- what's appropriate?

Someone at work has a crush on me. We have no work-related interaction and no reason to speak. He just looks dreamy when he sees me (desks are nearby). I'm married and not looking for anything except maybe some social interaction. Thanks!