Anonymous
Post 09/09/2016 16:24     Subject: Do you like your spouse's nieces and nephews less than your own?
I certainly do. My DH's sisters kid is extremely difficult and spoiled.
Anonymous
Post 09/09/2016 16:19     Subject: Do you like your spouse's nieces and nephews less than your own?
I see my siblings' kids more. So I know them better and we have a better relationship.
Anonymous
Post 09/09/2016 16:07     Subject: Do you like your spouse's nieces and nephews less than your own?
Nope, I love them all.
Anonymous
Post 09/09/2016 16:05     Subject: Do you like your spouse's nieces and nephews less than your own?
No, I like my spouse's nieces and nephews better than my siblings children!
Anonymous
Post 09/09/2016 15:49     Subject: Do you like your spouse's nieces and nephews less than your own?
Closer to my friends' kids. DH's siblings are competitive and make critical comments about DH and our kids that my friends would never make. My siblings live overseas and therefore the cousins are not close.
Anonymous
Post 09/09/2016 15:42     Subject: Do you like your spouse's nieces and nephews less than your own?
I like the ones who are smartest best. I'll take smart and badly behaved over basic and boring any day.
Anonymous
Post 09/09/2016 15:41     Subject: Do you like your spouse's nieces and nephews less than your own?
I actually feel closer to my fiancé's niece and nephew than to my sibling's kids. Fiancé's brother invites us over more and we just have a more open and fun relationship with fiancé's brother than with my sibling. So like someone else said, we spend more time with them so sometimes it does feel like I like them more than my own relations.
Anonymous
Post 09/09/2016 15:16     Subject: Do you like your spouse's nieces and nephews less than your own?
Anonymous wrote:OP - Do you have nephews and nieces on both sides of the family?


Why? Are you going to say OP would feel different if she had them on both sides?
Anonymous
Post 09/09/2016 15:15     Subject: Do you like your spouse's nieces and nephews less than your own?
Anonymous wrote:I think it depends on when you joined the family, how close you are to the different sibs etc.

I talk to my sister all the time so I know a ton about her kids and love them more in a real way because I actually know them / care deeply about them because I know them.

My husband and his brother talk rarely and not about the kids. I don't know a whole lot about them and I'm not willing to take on the role of my husband maintaining relationships with his family, so I don't feel as strongly connected to those kids.

I don't think thats weird

The weird part is the assumption that because of blood relations you would.love them more.
Anonymous
Post 09/09/2016 15:14     Subject: Do you like your spouse's nieces and nephews less than your own?
Anonymous wrote:OP - Do you have nephews and nieces on both sides of the family?


Yes I do
Anonymous
Post 09/09/2016 15:13     Subject: Re:Do you like your spouse's nieces and nephews less than your own?
no. It really comes down to who we see the most and who we bonded with the most.

I am closer to some cousins on my H side than I am to some of my own nieces because we spend tons of time with them.
Anonymous
Post 09/09/2016 15:12     Subject: Do you like your spouse's nieces and nephews less than your own?
I think it depends on when you joined the family, how close you are to the different sibs etc.

I talk to my sister all the time so I know a ton about her kids and love them more in a real way because I actually know them / care deeply about them because I know them.

My husband and his brother talk rarely and not about the kids. I don't know a whole lot about them and I'm not willing to take on the role of my husband maintaining relationships with his family, so I don't feel as strongly connected to those kids.

I don't think thats weird
Anonymous
Post 09/09/2016 15:10     Subject: Do you like your spouse's nieces and nephews less than your own?
OP - Do you have nephews and nieces on both sides of the family?
Anonymous
Post 09/09/2016 15:10     Subject: Re:Do you like your spouse's nieces and nephews less than your own?
Your friend.
Anonymous
Post 09/09/2016 15:08     Subject: Do you like your spouse's nieces and nephews less than your own?
I was talking to a friend who believes that everyone loves their siblings children more than their spouse's siblings kids.
I thinks that is crazy. I don't differentiate link that.
My friend doesn't consider her spouse's nieces and nephews to be her nieces and nephews. Who is weird here?