OP, I'm sorry to see that people were nasty to you. I posted on the thread, in support. I just wanted to say that I understand the dilemma you are in, including why you were torn about whether to call the cops or not. What seems clear to an outsider is not always clear to someone on the inside, with torn loyalties, feelings, etc.
I wish we could chat more about this, as I'm in a similar situation and really do understand.
Good luck to you.