My friend's husband won't even share lip balm with her. Lol. If she uses it he buys a new one.

Many people aren't that great at french kissing and too forceful and invasive. I'll do it but I don't love it either. It's not sexually enhancing for me and is kind of distracting. I strongly prefer slow soft kisses with his hand on my neck or face by my ears. In my hair works too. Now that is enhancing : ) french kissers IME are too focused on a goal or something and it feels less open and relaxed. Plus I get this what do I do with your searching tongue feeling that I don't like. Slow french kissing is better but it still can feel one sided.

Depends on the kisser. A good French kiss is good. A sloppy one feels like a violation.

It's not a thing.

Hollywood promotes it as "a thing" just like they promote three-somes. Doesn't ever happen

There is a forum for this Relationships, Explicit.

Anonymous wrote:I also dont like it much. Always been grossed out by spit (even the word saliva grosses me out). I will french kiss when we have both freshly brushed our teeth. I hate sharing drinks. It's definitely a quirk, but it's just who I am.

not a quirk PP. this is me, and I don't at all consider myself to be quirky.

I refuse to share anything that involves saliva, even my own kids. It makes my skin crawl.

If anyone drinks from my glass.....thanks you can have it, I am done with it. I won't even eat out of someone else's plate. not happening.

I'm the same, OP!!

Anonymous wrote:Op here, am a DW. Don't even really like it during sex. I like kissing, and not necessarily on lips. Just not into the deep tongue-ing.

Me too.

Anonymous wrote:I only like/enjoy it during sex. It's always been like that for me.

This. Even then, not always a.

I also dont like it much. Always been grossed out by spit (even the word saliva grosses me out). I will french kiss when we have both freshly brushed our teeth. I hate sharing drinks. It's definitely a quirk, but it's just who I am.

00:16 here.
It's not weird you like what you like, and that can change over time.

I' say as long as your not grossed out about your spouse in other ways it's fine.

Op here, am a DW. Don't even really like it during sex. I like kissing, and not necessarily on lips. Just not into the deep tongue-ing.

I only like/enjoy it during sex. It's always been like that for me.

I've always been a little bit this way myself. I'm a DW. Are you a DH or DW?

*realized*

Anyone else? Have recently relied that I don't like long make out sessions like I used to. Definitely no tongue-grosses me out a little. Been married for 12 years. Is this weird?