Didn't Shirley MacLaine's character in Terms of Endearment announce that she was middle-aged at 60 and her daughter sarcastically said, "Sure, you're going to die when you're 120 years old"?Anonymous wrote:Once you get past 60 it's hard to call yourself middle aged no matter what. Reality intrudes.
Anonymous wrote:I keep raising the age that I consider middle age the closer I get to it. I am 38 and I currently have it set at 50. When I was a teenager I had it set at 40. Methinks at 48 I will raise it to 60, lol
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Middle age is 30 to 50. After 50 you are not middle aged, you are old.
Says the 21-year old.![]()
Anonymous wrote:Middle age is 30 to 50. After 50 you are not middle aged, you are old.
Anonymous wrote:NP here, 50 y.o., and I'm thinking it also can be defined by lifestyle.
Been married to DH for 18 years, have a teen and tween, single family home, got the retirement savings and college funds going; DH senior at his career, our vacations are not thread-bare but a little more luxurious...
It's sort of that age that is fun to be living in, because things are settled and (except for some teen drama, of course) there is no drama. So it sounds boring, but contentment isn't a good story, drama is.
Also, for many women, it's that age where you decide there is no way you can look 20 anymore, so you settle down mentally about the stress of aging, and decide to look good for your age.
Anonymous wrote:NP here, 50 y.o., and I'm thinking it also can be defined by lifestyle.
Been married to DH for 18 years, have a teen and tween, single family home, got the retirement savings and college funds going; DH senior at his career, our vacations are not thread-bare but a little more luxurious...
It's sort of that age that is fun to be living in, because things are settled and (except for some teen drama, of course) there is no drama. So it sounds boring, but contentment isn't a good story, drama is.
Also, for many women, it's that age where you decide there is no way you can look 20 anymore, so you settle down mentally about the stress of aging, and decide to look good for your age.