Anonymous
Post 07/30/2016 05:51     Subject: Do you ever tell your dh or dw to go to hell?

No.
Anonymous
Post 07/30/2016 05:48     Subject: Do you ever tell your dh or dw to go to hell?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Those words are very disrespectful. Would you talk to your boss that way?


Haha he's not my boss! He started doing it a year ago.


My point is, when you respect someone you don't talk to them that way. A person might not respect the person a boss is, but respects the position. So they refrain from being disrespectful and saying things like that to them.

If your DH is saying that to you it means he no longer respects you. In my opinion, once the respect is gone, the relationship is doomed
Anonymous
Post 07/30/2016 04:44     Subject: Re:Do you ever tell your dh or dw to go to hell?

We do and we have been married for 31 years. We blow off steam and we know that we have an underlying respect for each other and always
have each other's back. Five minutes later we've both moved on.
Anonymous
Post 07/30/2016 02:43     Subject: Do you ever tell your dh or dw to go to hell?

Anonymous wrote:No. When I'm really frustrated I'll leash up the dog and go for a long walk or hole up alone in the bedroom with trash tv.


In chatting while we were dating, it came out that (Future) DH had never seen the movie Clueless. So one night we watched it together. Since then, any time he's frustrated with me, he'll do the "MMMMMMM! Woman!" thing Murray said to Dionne when they were in the car and he got frustrated with her map-reading skills.
Anonymous
Post 07/30/2016 01:15     Subject: Do you ever tell your dh or dw to go to hell?

Under my breath, yes.
Anonymous
Post 07/30/2016 00:51     Subject: Do you ever tell your dh or dw to go to hell?

No. When I'm really frustrated I'll leash up the dog and go for a long walk or hole up alone in the bedroom with trash tv.
Anonymous
Post 07/30/2016 00:47     Subject: Do you ever tell your dh or dw to go to hell?

People who are equal partners in a loving and respectful relationship don't do that
Anonymous
Post 07/30/2016 00:46     Subject: Do you ever tell your dh or dw to go to hell?

No
Anonymous
Post 07/30/2016 00:45     Subject: Do you ever tell your dh or dw to go to hell?

Nope. We don't talk like that to each other.
Anonymous
Post 07/30/2016 00:37     Subject: Do you ever tell your dh or dw to go to hell?

Anonymous wrote:Those words are very disrespectful. Would you talk to your boss that way?


Haha he's not my boss! He started doing it a year ago.
Anonymous
Post 07/30/2016 00:19     Subject: Re:Do you ever tell your dh or dw to go to hell?

Never.
Anonymous
Post 07/30/2016 00:18     Subject: Do you ever tell your dh or dw to go to hell?

Those words are very disrespectful. Would you talk to your boss that way?
Anonymous
Post 07/30/2016 00:15     Subject: Do you ever tell your dh or dw to go to hell?

No. I say "leave me alone", before I say things I could later regret.
Anonymous
Post 07/30/2016 00:13     Subject: Do you ever tell your dh or dw to go to hell?

You do?
Anonymous
Post 07/29/2016 23:48     Subject: Do you ever tell your dh or dw to go to hell?

Anyone else do this?